u/Adnepr

I have recently remembered the movie "Me Before You" which ends with assisted suicide in Switzerland. I understand it as basically a "free-for-all" exit option for anyone who wants to, as far as they have quite a bit of cash to offer for this assistance.

I am interested in how it works not just on paper in law in the other countries in Europe where it is at all possible. Citizenship status, price, how much of a process it is to convince the doctors etc.

Purely bit of morbid curiosity, mostly interested in hearing experiences with it beyond the basics google is gonna throw at me - of course not expecting first hand experience, but if you knew someone who decided to go for this option how was the process?

Hello everyone. Basically I know I should leave people to figure out boulder problems themselves. But yesterday I saw a couple on a dyno route, really easy one that's basically entry point to understanding dynos exist, and the guy was tall - I am about 190cm and he was a little taller but with big ape index on top. So he just did the problem by reaching to the hold one should jump to... and well that didn't work for his max 170cm girl who was trying to scoot over to the hold again and again. Was it a dick move that I just came over, told her to not get bamboozled by tall ppl and then I showed the jump? She was happy when she got it, told her guy she always wanted to try a dyno. Still feeling iffy if I went against culture norms

Hello everyone, it's gonna be a year since I first posted here when I was at the edge of ending everything. TLDR I housed and fed an unemployed manipulator and possibly actual psychopath for 3 years, got separated from family and hobbies only to get serially cheated on the moment she started working - if not before that. A lot of emotionally extremely sadistic stuff etc, classic high end emotional abuse. Only learned because she bragged about it to my sister.

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I am not completely okay, and not sure when I will - but I am coping, getting therapy and getting better. Last thing I know about her was her lying to everyone about what happened, bragging about her situationships, and stalking in front of my friend's store repeatedly I assume to try to cause me another breakdown - but I am caring about all of that much less successfully.

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I am still in the flat I rented for the two of us, still too pricey. But I changed careers, and got a side job as a fitness trainer. Picking up bouldering, and got some decent strength gains at the gym. Trying to find friends but struggling as a working adult man with no bigger social circle, but not anywhere to giving up. Neither did I give up on my dream of building a family... first few months after the last post I increased my bodycount by about 15 because I struggled saying no to girls after the absolute mental destruction, honestly hated most of that and I know I am not built for casual.

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Honestly, I feel like I stared true pure evil in the eye, and made it out. She for sure hurled more hurt my way than I received in all of my life before that combined - I was bullied quite a bit growing up, and I am not being hyperbolic that the amount of times she chose to be sadistic towards outclasses all my bullies combined. I still struggle with the love/hate feelings, and she's the first person ever I actually truly hated even now that the feelings have settled - I hope first and last...

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Continuing trudging on, looking for ways to fix the damage, and not giving up on women even as disappointments keep piling on - I will find someone who'll cherish me as much as I will them, and till then I will keep working towards it.

Hello everyone, I have run into a pickle while having to mass edit a database export, with python scripting being unavailable on the machine and so have to come back to excel formulas after years.

I need to split values that are in one cell, remove strings at beginning and end and then merge back into one cell.

Example:

id0: document_name0 {link0}

id1: document_name1 {link1}

paramX = XX

Result:

Document_name0

Document_name1

paramX = XX

Both cases the document names are both in one cell. Using textafter for ": " and substituting between "{" and "}" wasn't a problem for me, but I just cannot after all this time of not using it make textsplit, map, and textjoin work. Sorry for lack of formatting, writing on the phone on the bus from work. Thank you for any help