To those of you who used to have bad social anxiety in your early 20s,how did you actually start making friends here? I’m trying to put myself out there more, but I just freeze up. What actually worked for you?
I’m honestly just writing this bcus im going a bit crazy sitting at home all day and i really just need to vent. idk if anyone else feels this way, but the loneliness has been absolutely crushing me lately.
tbh, ive basically been a loner for most of my life. i never really had a solid group of friends or people i could just hit up to hang out with. Whats funny is , i actually really love meeting new ppl and i really want to make friends, but i always end up stuck in my comfort zone, isolating myself in my room 24/7.
lately, things have gotten way worse. im dealing with a really heavy wave of depression and anxiety becuase of some personal stuff that happened recently. i had to make a really painful decision to walk away from someone i cared about deeply, and the aftermath is destroying me. the anxiety is literally physical now. And sitting alone with my thoughts all day in my house is just feeding into it.
im just so sick of this loop. waking up, staring at the walls, overthinking everything, and going to sleep. i want to force myself out of my comfort zone. i want to actually get out of the house, grab a coffee, talk about random stuff, and just feel normal for a bit. Im sure there are ppl who are same as me looking for good ppl for friendship .
just wanted to vent/ask something bc im losing my mind a bit. i actually really like meeting new ppl and making new friends, but ive literally tried everything and nothing works. i swear i end up sitting by myself like 99.9 percent of the time between classes. idk if its just me but this uni is really weird with people and socializing. everyone just sticks to their own groups and its insanely hard to break in and actually connect with anyone. Im 22 and barely have any friends i just sit between breaks by myself… i just wanna find some solid friends to hang out with, grab a coffee, or just chill instead of staring at my phone alone. This uni is alot better with friends and i don’t wanna waste that good memories because I’ll miss it
مرحبا شباب . بعرف انه مش افضل مكان ابعث فيه بس قلت ليه لا؟
انا شب من سكان عمان الشرقية بعرف العب كرة (ما بقول اني كثير خرافي بس والله بعرف العب ) والي فترة مقطوع عن الكرة بشكل عام والحجزات. ما عندي اصحاب بنفس اهتمامي للكرة وللاسف بضل فترة ادور عشان احجز من موضوع الافريقة.. وبدور على شباب محترمين شارواكو بالخير يكونو معهم فريق والعب واتعرف عليكم🙏🏽
أنا شب عمري 22 سنة، وآخر فترة بمر بضغط عاطفي وصراع داخلي مش عارف كيف اتخلص من الشعور…. الصراحة ، نفسي جداً أصاحب بنات، أدخل بعلاقة، وأعيش شعور الحب والاهتمام العاطفي الي بشوفه حولّي ومع الكل. انا ولا عمري دخلت بعلاقة او حبيت . وبس اقول للناس هيك (خصوصا اول ما دخلت الجامعة) بستغربو وبس يقلولي ما عندك خسة؟ بقولهم لا وبصفنو في وبضحكو انه انت بتعرفش اتزبط بنات وفي منهم الي بستغرب انه كشكل بتقدر . وكنت ماسكها من ناحية دين وهيك (يخوان انا مش شيخ وبالعكس انا انسان تافة بس انه بحاول قدر المستطاع ابعد ومش عارف اخر فترة كثير صعبة والقصة صايرة بتشدني بشكل مش طبيعي) .