u/Advanced-Concept1239

I (25f) am a survivor of CSA I’m not sure if this is one of the causes for this but I have always had issues reaching the big “O” wether it be by myself or with a partner. I have never been able to get there with partners at all I have been close but never fully there, and when I do it to myself I ethier need help from a vib or take forever to get there and when it does happen it’s very unfulfilling. I have been under a lot of stress for awhile and trying to manage that. I just want to be able to “O” especially with my partner he is amazing and I am beyond in the mood when we are in the process I just can’t get there. Please help and give tips on what I can do!