u/Advanced_Boss_447

I don’t know if it’s a INFJ thing, but when I try to speak up, my words are dying in my mouth. I struggle to tell my thoughts, as if I couldn’t verbalize it and I’m just giving up. I can’t « explain » myself spontaneously, even more when it comes to my feelings. I was so used to shut them down and listen to others.
Do you also feel this way ?

Are we known for ghosting ? If yes, may you explain why ? I have never ghosted someone in my life. It hurts by imagine what they could feel, how they could interpret the silence. I feel bad for them by doing so.

I have fear of abandonment and ghosting sounds, for me, like giving up on someone. I may take time to answer if I am overwhelmed but I don’t let them on read. So, why are we described like that ?