My [26F] bf [29M] has an overly friendly coworker [25F] and it’s driving me crazy.
My boyfriend of three years has recently started a new job. There, he is working with this new girl who is being overly friendly with him.
For example, she always invites him to different events/travels, says she’s gonna be bored without him, teases him etc. Nothing too alarming, but it’s very obvious to me she’s trying to flirt with him.
I didn’t tell him anything about my doubts because I may be overthinking this whole situation, so I don’t want to sound jealous or upset, but I obviously am as I’ve been literally losing sleep over this for the past few weeks. Also, I was cheated on before and it started in a similar way, so this kind of situation makes me extra insecure and uncomfortable.
I also don’t want to tell him he should stop having any contact with her as it is first of all impossible, as they’re working together, and second, I’m afraid he’ll think I’m overreacting. I also don’t want to talk about this because I feel like it will draw his attention to her even more, if that makes sense.
So what should I do?
tl;dr: Bf has a new coworker who I think is flirting with him. It is driving me crazy as I feel helpless and I’m not sure what to do.