Idk what im doing wrong, I have absolutely zero success with anyone my age.
TLDR: im doing pretty much everything that women say they like and I still have no dating success, what can I do if the only issue is me being ugly?
Im 29 now, I never really had much success with dating, only had 4 relationships, all of them long distance that i stumbled into accidentally. Now its been about 6 months since my last gf broke up with me because she realised she is gay.
Absolutely 0 success since.
I know I shouldn't generalise and all of the Internet is basically fake but its just so frustrating to see women online say stuff that doesnt apply to reality.
they hate it when guys are conservative, only want sex, dont text back, lack hygiene....
all of these are issues that dont apply to me:
Im a feminist and socialist since i can think, im always texting back as soon as my phone beeps, im lookin for a relationship (put that on my tinder and hinge) and im kinda obsessed with shampoos and perfumes, not like that "shower once a week with a 5 in 1 shampoo" stereotype
The only issue that i have is absolutely no beard growth.... cant really do anything about it
Even me being a bit overweight shouldnt be a problem since everyone online talks about how a "dad bod" is more attractive than a "gym bro"
So just on paper i am the "perfect guy"
In relationships, all of my previous partners have told me how much they love me and how much of a better guy i was than their previous bf.... so i cant really be an asshole either (and even if i was a dick, that would not be noticeable until the first date, i dont even get that far)
I look a lot younger than I am, the only "attention" I get is from girls much younger, like 16-20 but thats nowhere near what im looking for.
Although my ex always called me "my handsome boy" i still think my main issue is looks.
Pretty much every person I know has called me ugly and sometimes even random people walking past me in the city make comments about how ugly i am...
I wouldnt really consider myself ugly but i also know that men always overestimate themselves
If everything goes right im gonna have surgery next week to get rid of my crossed eye thing and then im probably go for a round of tumor removals again. I guess at the end of the day looks is still the only thing that matters.
In the meantime, can you suggest anything i can try?