u/Advanced_Principle49

Have any of you ever decided to do anything like this?

Wife and I spent our anniversary deciding to tease each other for the full day of our anniversary. Our rule that we set is that we could (and should) do whatever we wanted to turn the other on, but neither of us were allowed to orgasm until after we got home from dinner. It was actually so wild and I’ve never had blue balls so bad before.

She woke me up and we had sex first thing in the morning, but we couldn’t finish, and I haven’t seen her this heated for the rest of the day before. She decided to go shopping for date night outfit and sent me sexy pics of her trying on revealing outfits that she would wear for the date: She came home and pulled me into our room and straddled me AGAIN. At this point she was out of control, and I was in some serious pain. Lol

When we finally went to dinner, she was slowing off her DDs to me in her little shirt and was making all kinds of requests that she never had before. She shoved my hand down her pants to finger her. She was incredible.

When we finally got home from dinner, the sitter couldn’t leave soon enough. It was insane and fun. I think my boys need a break before trying that again. Fun date activity. Just be discreet and don’t do anything publicly indecent. lol

I’ve been in a pretty vanilla but consistent and active sexual relationship with my wife for the past 12 years of marriage. We were both virgins and just new to everything when we were first married. We are definitely experienced now, but just have kept it simple. I’ve always loved the idea of dirty talk with my wife. Like all the words. Visual and auditory stimulation are really important for me.

I have expressed to her that I love it so much because we don’t swear in our regular lives, and so when we swear in our bedroom, it becomes our secret language of desire, and shows true trust and vulnerability. Plus, the taboo and the safety of it is massively arousing to me. She didn’t really latch on to the idea of talking dirty until recently because she said it felt insincere or put on. So I didn’t really push it because I don’t ever want to coerce or make her feel uncomfortable. She has said that she does not mind at all if I talk dirty to her during sex, but she has not wanted to join. So sometimes when I’m feeling super turned on, I will be a little more explicit with her like describe to her what I’m gonna do to her etc. Over the past 4 years or so, she has begun to reciprocate and it’s been quite amazing.

Last week she screamed “fuck me harder baby!” a bunch of times in a row in the middle of sex, and I have never heard her say that before. I pretty much came instantly. Lol. She’s done it a few times since and added other soft language, and I’m like constantly turned on for her. Probably the hottest thing ever. That’s the story of how the Stake Primary President began swearing more during sex.