u/Adventurous-Cycle363

Chinnappatnunchi (immediate) family thappa evari nunchi kooda love or affection anedi feel avvaledhu. Unna okka friend emo in person chaala dooram lo unnadu (vere country), and it has mostly been like that so starved of some love and soothing convos.

Mostly bane untundi day antha but appudappudu feeling very very lonely, undesirable and actually aomewhat pointless. The only reason that helps me to reject depression is the fact that my family will feel the pain. Vallu thappa vere evvaru kooda pattinchukoru anipistundi.

Basic ga I was always good at studies, ambitious and have mostly nerdy hobbies. Chinnappatnunchi (aa okka friend thappa) inka prathi okkaru edo oka materialistic aspect like helping in exams, notes or events lo writing, money, resume etc kosame interact ainattu anipistundi, tharvatha malli kanabadaru. Ippudu chala kastabadi I am trying to be more social but enduko it feels very very hard. Nenu unna place lo oka friend circle form cheskundam ani entha try chesina avvatledhu. Inka relationship ane chapter ey open cheyyale asalu.

Day by day I am internalizing this feeling that I am fundamentally unlovable. I have read countless books, tried therapy etc and logical part of me screams it is not true and tries to be practical but finally oka voice "Ah bokkale, em chesina use ledu inka" ani so it feels very hard to be motivated to do anything. Evarina help cheyandi please, any suggestions to get out of this?

Hello all. Renting in England. I am moving out in a few hours and I am in a situation where my tenancy ends after 3 days. I am fi e with paying the bills etc until the end of tenancy, landlord said he'll send me the final meter readings etc for this.

Now I noticed that the freezer is having a lot of ice. Now I don't wanna switch off the fridge as that causes water leak all over the floor. Instead I wanna leave the fridge on and vacate the property. In this case, the hope is that landlord will come at the end of tenancy for inspection, and potentially charge me for defrosting, which I believe is less than the damage that might be causes due to water leak on the floor? Should I just leave the fridge on and vacate the house?

Hello all, I need some help please and I'd be very grateful. I am moving soon to london and the flat is in Clapham south area, close to Weir Road. Could people please share opinions/thoughts on the area? I was told Clapham is a bit posh and mostly young/early 30 couples and generally decent area, and just few miles from Battersea. But just wondering about any precautions or crime rates etc. Please help me.
My office is in EC4A area, so likely Northern line or 59 bus to commute.

Hello all, need a suggestion. Moving to London for a new job, just chosen a place but want to have suggestions from people here. I am about to decide on Clapham South - Balham. I just want to know if it is safe or unnecessarily expensive, the nightlife etc. I am single, mid 20s. I just want to meet peers and HENRYs near by, go to the social events and get into that community, and want to know if this place is a good decision. I believe getting into HENRY community is important as they teach the mindset and forming connections etc. My office is in EC4A area. Please give your valuable suggestions. Thanks a lot.

Edit : Thanks a lot everyone, I paid the deposit. I have no friends here and hence I am very grateful for everyone for quick responses. Just to clarify I am not an elitist, I just meant no nuisance areas like people trespassing, randomly entering into external gates and smoking drugs etc. Thank you, please feel free to give more suggestions about the dating life, hobbies etc in the area. Thank you all.

My flat is in England and the rent date is 12th each month. I am in AST now until September 12th. But I wanna leave early and searching for a house now, didn't tell this to landlord yet.

My plan was to say to the landlord that I wanna move on May 1st (after RRA) and just ask for early release or prepare to lose 2 months of tenancy rent. (May - Jun and Jun - July 12th). But now today on 28th April he gave me S21 notice. What do I need to do please? I am panicking. THanks a lot for help