Hello telugu peeps!!! Would anyone be interested in joining a 10k walking accountability group? I walk anywhere from 6.5k to 10k steps some days but won't make an effort to move out of the house on other days. So, looking for some buddies to keep accountability and give one another a positive push in the right direction.

I am thinking of creating a group in Stepup app. But any other app recommendations are welcome too🙏. Planning to keep the group small (12-15 members) so we don't loose track of progress.

COME ON!! LET'S 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃🚶‍♀️🚶‍♂️🚶

Nenu 27M. Recent ga Reddit lo cuck, bull, wife swap lanti NSFW communities chusthu unnanu. Naku biggest problem aa content kaadu, aa content chusinappudu vacche thoughts.

Aa posts chusinappudu naa mind lo okkate question tirugutundi — "Enduku naa life lo ilaanti experiences levu?" "Andaru exciting lives lead chesthunaru, nenu matram life ni miss avuthunnana?" ani. Nenu telusu social media mariyu Reddit lo chala stories exaggerate ayi undochu leda fake kuda undochu, kani chadivina tarvata comparison stop cheyyalekapothunna.

Dani valla self-esteem taggipotundi, loneliness ekkuva anipisthundi, age gurinchi stress vastundi, inka naa life boring ga undani feel avuthunna. Konni rojulu aa thoughts nundi bayataki ravatam kastam ga untundi.

Evarikaina ilaanti experience unda? NSFW content valla unrealistic expectations leda FOMO vachinda? Meeru ela handle chesaru?

Hey guys!! It's early midnight, and antha mood ledhu and can't really sleep and can't even do my work. So, thought of throwing a post and want to talk to anyone.

Maybe you can say like how's life been lately?

And, another question how do you push yourself and work on your stuff when you are failing and you really can't?

Or anything that comes to your mind!

Asalu 20s lo ne life set cheskovali lekapothe society manalni oka loser la chusthadhi ani evaru chepparu.? I'm a recent graduate and lately I'm realising that I'm just at the starting point in this journey daanike late aypoyndhi tondara settle avvali ani manalni influence chese vaalu untar chudu👊🏻

And enjoy your 20s before they are gone adhi idhi antaru.. Career tension, job switch, upskilling tappa em ledhu🥱

Evarinaina chala mad ga love chesi, vallatho whole life imagine cheskuni, oka roju vallaki complete ga dooram avvalsosthe… how do you even grieve that person?

Especially when they’re still alive. Still somewhere in this world. Just no longer a part of your life.

And the hardest part is, they treated you badly. You know you deserved better. You know leaving was probably the right thing to do.

But you still miss them and hate how they treated you.

You miss who you thought they were. You miss the memories, the conversations, the little things. You miss the future you imagined with them.

Maybe that’s what makes it so painful.. there’s no funeral, no final goodbye. Just a person who is alive, but a relationship that is dead.

How do you finally grieve that?

How do you accept that someone you loved with your whole heart is now someone you have to learn to live without?

nenu 24m ma parents ki 18 years unnapudu putta (2002) and na chelli 2004 lo puttindhi. ma parents ki starting nunchi evari support ledhu. even ma nanna valla parents kuda one rupee kuda ichevallu kadhu entha emergency aina motham ma father chuskune vallu. ala 2019 lo b tech join ayyevaraku naku em kastalu teliyavu ah tarvata motham start ayyay. 2022 ante nenu third year lo unnapudu oka ammayni chusa (Lucky) anukundham.tanu na junior roju chustu unde vadni ala six months ayipoyindhi. ah ammay details em teliyav kani ah pilla ante istam matram perigindhi. ala chustu unte oka roju valla friend insta story lo grp pic okati post chesaru adhi chusi nenu ah frnd ki message chesa ila ah ammay id kavali ani ah frnd tanani adigi ivvamante naku id ichindhi.ala ichaka chat cheyatam start chesi one month ke relationship ki vellam.kani starting lo chala sweet ga matladedhi like marriage and kids 6 months from the start. but eventually nenu message cheste kani tanu chesedhi kadhu okavela chesina one word replies ichedhi. ala 2023 jan varaku ayyindhi taruvata naku oka heart breaking thing telisindhi tanu nannu cheat chestundhi ani nenu kakunda inko idharu unaru ani telisindhi.nenu depression loki vella anxiety vachesindhi lonliness vachesindhi.tanu nenu cheating gurunchi adiginappudu nenu ninnu love cheyaledhu nenu x ni love chesa andhi x ante valla cls abbayi idharri lo okaru nenu sare ani silent ayyi nenu marchipotaniki heavy drinking start chesa.kani nenu tanani roju check chese vadni ela undhi ani endhukante tanani nenu true ga love chesa vadhilipetti undalenu ani tanaki telusu konni days tarvata call chesi edchindhi ila cheyatam tappe nannu evaru nila chuskoledhu cheat chesaka kuda nuv nannu okka word kuda analedhu and tana safe space nene starting nunchi valla parents affairs pettukoni intilo oka toxic environment create chestuntaru.ala tanani malli na life loki nene tiskunna .march 10 2023 roju sudden ga morning call chesi evening meet avudham andhi sare anna ah evening room ki vellam kani naku ah pillatho sex cheyalante naku disgusting ga anipinchindhi ila entha mandhi tho emotions fake chesi chesindho ani. sex cheyatam tappu kadhu kani emotions tho games play cheyatam tappu. 2023 may lo na b tech ayipoyindhi nenu ah tarvata week a govt job preparation ki vijayawada move ayyanu. oka two months tarvata nene set kadhu ani break up cheppa tanu okka mata kuda matladakunda sare good ani pettesindhi.inka ikkada nunchi game start ayyindhi tanu naku roju gurtu vastundhi oka side tanu correct kadhu manchi jarigindhi break up cheppi ani inko side tanani antha love chesa nannu ila chesindhani badha ala 2026 jan varaku ayyindhi. 2026 jan lo na ssc 2nd attempt mains manchiga rasa ani excite ayya. ah tarvata one month ki ma chelli (marriage ayyi 5 months) ki health bagola like in feb.march 10th na naku tanaki cancer ani doubt undhi ani naku telsina doctor natho chepparu ah two days nenu ela unanno nake telidhu. and ah tarvata march 12 tanaki cancer(cml) ani diagnose ayyindhi naku ippatike chala depression and anxiety undhi nenu ela feel avvalo kuda ardam kala konni days zombie la unna .ala days avutu unte aprile 8th na ssc result vachindhi naku manchi department lo job vachindhi pay vachesi monthly 70k ala.sare ani happy ga feel ayyelopu april 23rd na ma daddy ki paralysis vachindhi ma chelli gurunchi ekkuva think chese vallu ala unko heart break naku...sare ani daddy ki hospital visits veltu and ma chelli hospital visits ki veltu eroju varaku jarigipoyindhi. ma daddy ippudy recover ayyaru kani ma chelli appointment ki eroju vella andharu chala shoking ga chustunnaru oka thatha na daggaraki vachi emavutundhi ani adigaru chelli ani cheppa tanu chala bhadha paddaru intha chinna age lo ani. inko pakka nenu na ex marchipoleka inko pakka na family members ila chudaleka chastunna, em cheyalo telidhi next month nenu chennai vellali for job joining but nenu tanani marchipole potunna and na family situation chuste ila undhi. em cheyalo telidhu.inni kastalu pettatanike god manli create chestada

I know so many people will come at me for feeling this way but I can't help how I feel.

My childhood was not so great with both my parents working, mom's a tailor and my father is a security guard. Well he's alcoholic and abusive, he used to do 4 days night shift and 4 days dayshift, it might have messed him up mentally so he took it on us.

So I found love when I was in btech 1st year. It was my schoolmate whom I know for so long. He's my first love. He was such a great guy. Ditto like Korean series hero, understanding and so so loving. I got to experience such amazing love , I can't describe it. Sitting beside him in auto would make me feel so relaxed, it's so relaxing than my mom's hug. He went to college trip and died there in accident. My whole world collapsed. I used to be like a walking zombie. I thought of commiting suicide but I couldn't let my mother suffer. I continued living and slowly started getting better with the help of my friends. I got job after finishing graduation, while working my family started seeing matches. So I told I want to do higher studies. Cracked gate and got college in Chennai.

There I met this guy, I felt it's better to marry someone I knew then a stranger and got married to him. He's a good person but not a great person. I know searching for my first love in him is unfair. But I got to experience so much love that this doesn't feel enough. Maybe marriage changes people. I really don't know.

Sometimes I miss my first love so so much. I would imagine how life would be with him. It's not like I don't love my husband. I love him too. But I miss my first love so much. It's been 12 years, I remember each and every moment with him and hold his memories to my heart. I just want to vent to someone as I can't tell this to anyone, they will hate me if I tell my friends or anyone else.

Namaskaram andariki

Andharu bagunnaru ani anukuntunnanu. 😊

Endhuku ee post chesthunnanu ante… life lo oka kotha journey start chesthunnanu! ✨

Repu Gowra Palladium campus lo naa first stall pedthunnanu!
Andharu please bless me. ❤️

Akkada work chese vallaki ee post kanipisthe, please do visit our stall and support me.

Chinna concept, chinna budget tho… DIY laga, meere mee own bracelet make cheskune activity petthunnanu. 💕✨

Ela untundo ani chala excited ga undi, but honestly… konchem nervous ga kuda undi. 😭
Asalu evaraina konukkuntara? Nenu andaritho ela matladthanu? Ani chala thoughts osthunnayi. 😂
But oka kotha thing try chesthunnanu kabatti, mee blessings and support naaku chala important.
Please visit, make your own bracelet & have some fun!

And mee office lo team-building activities, birthday celebrations, small engagement activities laga DIY activity cheyinchali anukunte, please feel free to contact me. ✨

I'm 28, currently package around 7.6 LPA. Salary comparatively konchem takkuve ani naaku telusu, but I'm comfortable EMI ledu, debts levu, so financially I'm not struggling. Having emergency fund and investing in M.F and stocks mostly all of them profitable only.

I have 4.3 YOE in the networking domain. Kaani lately konchem anxiety/tension laga anipisthundi, esp when I compare myself with others. Next switch lo at least 12 LPA+ target chestha, Ee job market lo adi kuda vastundo raadho chudali.

Naa age or naa kanna younger people 12–15 LPA earn chesthunnaru ante okay, understandable anipisthundi. Kaani WTF, 20L, 25L, 30LPA below 30 age lo ela reach avuthunnaru asalu? 🫣

So genuinely want to understand:

Ee 20–30 LPA lu common aa, leka small percentage of people ki maatrame vastaya? Reddit/LinkedIn la high earners ekkuva kanipinchatam valla manaki ala anipisthundha?

Should I just focus aggressively on improving my skills and making better switches? If yes, Networking side vellaochu antara should I change the domain?

It's been more than 5 years since I stopped talking to my sister Even though We live in the same house, Whenever I Had to talk which is urgent like calling my father or informing anything, I go near her room without looking at her, I stare at wall and inform her anything if it is urgent and whenever I need something I address Her as "SOMEONE" like can SOMEONE(her) give me your phone I need to call father. I only ask if it is very very urgent.

She is 4 years younger than me, She constantly used to insult me for various reasons and Always tried to demean me I dropped out of Btech due to severe mental health issues and suffered through a lot, didn't got job at the right time, so according to her i am a failure and don't deserve respect, So during family discussions Whenever I talk she along with my big sister gang up on me, They pick up small thing I say during the discussion and try to fight me.

My parents always sides with them, During one heated arguments my father said, "Vallu Aadavallu intiki maha lakshmi valla UCCHA(URINE) Tagina thappu ledu".

Whenever this festival comes I need to act like her brother and have to let her tie rakhi and then everything goes normal and we don't talk.

It feels like dying cause I don't want to see her face or anything to do with her, cause the level of insults i endured from her and another older sister gave me suicidal thoughts.

My family is not led by my father but my mother, she thinks she is actual goddess cause she is the one who do pooja and everything that is related to god.

My mother have a very complex relationship with my both sisters. generally whenever we as a family encounter any problem, normal mothers consult and discuss with their husbands or with elderly people, but my mother, she ask my sister who is younger in my family.

Like suppose, should we go to hospital for a check up ? My mother asks my sister then my sister complete goes spiritual mode like BABA and tells my mother you should,

My mother deeply believe in signs given by eyes (Kannu(eyes) adaratam, left means good for girls and and right means bad)

Both my sisters and my mother is a team decides these bullshit things. My father is a slave for their judgements.

I don't believe in god because of these bullshit things so i am an outcaste in my family, because of my series of failures i experienced in my life, they believe it is because of having no faith in God, They believe I am a bad luck Because of it.

The only reason i am still at my house is because i am preparing for govt job.

proper format lo rayaledhu , just wanted to tell what's in my heart

➤PARENT DYNAMICS:

AMMA (age 46) nenu thappa inko prapancham ledhu ,NANNA (age60)

ma amma nanna madhya age difference 14 years , 2005 lo jarigina oka accidental marriage adhi , to be more precise ma nanna ki marriage meedha interest lekunde , societal pressure lo ma amma vallaki wrong age cheppi pelli chesukunnaru ,thanu(amma) pregnant ga unnapudu 14 years age gap ani telisindhi , from then there is no love and affection between my parents

➤FINANCIAL CONDITION :

lower middle class/poor

dad : works as a postal delivery man (outsourcing) - 12k per month

mom : tution teacher for children upto 8th class - 8k per month (govt teacher avvalani thana dream, she worked really hard for it, but god is cruel right )

maa thata daya valla oka own house undhi , oka reku ellu which leaks in 2 out of 4 rooms in monsoons and feels like a oven in summer .

➤ABOUT ME:

chinnapti nundi i was a bright student 10th lo school topper , used to have best friends ,very confident , every telugu parent's dream child , intermediate lo 960/1000 ,then came JEE(seperate ga cheppali dhini gurinchi). 2022 lo 10th complete ayyindhi , 2024 lo intermediate ayyindhi.

➤JEE :

Inter naadhi oka normal junior college. JEE level lo prepare cheyinche faculty em pedhaga ledhu, just marks-oriented preparation tho two years friends tho saradaga aipoyayi. EAMCET lo kuda manchi rank raaledhu.

Tarvatha IITs, NITs gurinchi, avi provide chese exposure and opportunities gurinchi telisindhi. Intlo amma-nanna ni convince chesi, better future kosam JEE ki oka drop year teesukunta ani cheppa.

Coaching afford cheyyalemu kabatti Physics Wallah online coaching tho prepare ayya. First drop lo JEE lo 94 percentile, EAMCET lo 14k rank vachindhi. Ee scores tho average colleges matrame vasthayi. Konni reasons valla Maths ki kuda antha time ivvalekapoya.

“Sarle, 94 percentile vachindhi kada, next year inka serious ga prepare chesthe manchi NIT aina vastundhi” ani anukoni inko drop teesukunna.

And this is where the actual downfall started.

(First drop lo 14k EAMCET rank vachina kuda college enduku join avvaledhu ane reason tharuvatha cheptha.)

➤2nd DROP : (downfall)

12th tharvatha 1 year gap teesukunna ani relatives, society chaala pressure pettaru. “Malli 2nd drop ante inka em undhi?” ani, nannu intlo unchukunda vere oorlo maa penni valla inti daggara separate room rent ki teesukunnaru. Online courses, test series anni provide chesaru.

First 2 months baane undhi, but tharvatha loneliness hit ayyindhi. Friends tho connections levu, Insta lo andarini college life enjoy chesthunnaru ani chusi “Nenu wrong decision teesukunna?” ane self-doubt start ayyindhi. Gradually lectures aapesa, backlog perigipoyindhi, practice aapesa. Months tharvatha pen pattukovadam kuda marchipoya. YouTube/social media ki addict ayyi brainrot, low attention span, hatred laanti vatitho struggle ayya.

January lo JEE Mains 1st attempt raasa — 23% vachindhi. Intlo vallaki 87% ani abaddham cheppa. “Sare, EAMCET lo atleast 4k rank techukoni SRM AP lo free seat techukundam” ani anukunna. But malli discipline maintain cheyyalekapoya.

Finally EAMCET lo 44k rank vachindhi.

maa amma ki shock , "edhi nijanga nee rank eena ?"ani adigindhi , she is too innocent , i felt really bad about what i did in my second drop.

➤PRESENT SITUATION:

naa parents ki ekkuva expectations levu oka govt job chaalu , naaku matram chinnapati nunchi theliyani poverty like good house lekapovadam , family tho ookasari kuda restuarent ki vellaledhu in my life time , nachina battalu konelapovadam , constnt money problem dani valla vache anxiousness inka chaala unnai ela chepppalo ardham kaavtle ,evi anni chusi ela aina wealth generate cheyyali ane purugu 1st drop nunchi undhi , just oka govt job tho wealth create cheyyalenu , adhe some business , free lancing , monetizing art , lanti vatitho emaina cheyyalani mindset kosame nits kosam drops thesa, 4 years btech lo 1st and second year edo la money generate chestha incase set kakapothe 3rd and 4th year lo placements ki kurchunta ani anukunna.

kanni cut to pesent ap eamcet counceling lo raghu college vachindhi , eppudu naaku ee college lo btech cheyyadam waste la anipistundhi , exposure ledhu poni placement kuda levu , poni sontag aemina cheyyadaniki time freedom kuda ledhu , bayata tech market kuda em baale . inko 4 years waste avvadam kante naaku inkem kanipinchadam ledhu.

➤CONTENT CREATION :

NITS lo exposure kosam edhuku antha thapatraya padda ante ,i am really passionate about content creation , how creators make audience and build multiple income sources and i think the can do good if get a good college

the creators i get inspired from :

chandan cheripally , shaikazad 2003 ,outpero founder ,tharun speaks , mouli talks ,jasti , fashion verge ,ajay vision , poorvay . to start creating this type of content i need a good college.

➤WHAT TO DO ?:

engineering kakunda inka emaina unnaya ante , CA kaani it takes 5 years to become a CA and is really tough , incase complete chesina i might become good salaried person but can create wealth poni btech join ayyi tech placements ki kurchundham ante oppurtunities kanipinchadam ledhu pette effort dhaniki kante impotaant , naaku tech interst undha ledha ani thelidhu , etu chusina unemlpyment kanipisttundhi

whats in my mind , online freelancing , coding anni explore chesi SRM AP lo next year eamcet through 4k rank thechukoni seat thechukoni , i can follow my intersets and placements kontha lo kontha better untai ani oka delusion belief lo unna , kaani ma amma matram intha confusion undadam chusi edchestundhi , inka enni years alne untav , vacchina engineering college lo join ayipovachu ga ani , but raghu lo join aithe govt jobs thappa dheniki paniki rakunda pothanani na opinion

➤what i expect from reddit :

just telll me what you feeel , express cheyyadaniki kuda evaru leru , suicidal thoughts kuda vastunnai

I WAS SO EXCITED, I'M STILL SO EXCITED, MAN, THEY ARE SO CUTE! EVERYONE IN MY FAMILY'S SO EXCITED, THEY MADE OUR DAY ＼⁠(⁠^⁠o⁠^⁠)⁠／

I really don't know how I missed seeing the nest for so long, the babies are already out of their eggs and are moving about!

Yaawrr, look at the cuties, so excited to eat! And so loud!!

I'm not a great camera person or anything, but I'll try to see if I can get more shots of them as they grow up! And I was telling my dad, after the chicks grow up and leave, let's keep the nest as an heirloom in our house, but my dad told me - 'Em chesukuntav, atleast alane uncheste, inkoka pakshi vachi pillalni pettukuntundemo.' Dad's really wise huh. This is the best thing that's happened in a while, hope they grow well and strong, I'M SO HAPPY!!! ♪⁠ ⁠\⁠(⁠^⁠ω⁠^⁠\⁠ ⁠)

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