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Eeroju naa birthday. I'm neither happy or sad. It's just another day for me.

The thing is my father had called me twice. We are not having good terms right now. He called me like 3 months ago. 3 months ga nenu ela unnano maybe maa Amma ni adigi telusukuntunnaremo kaani nannu adagaledhu.

Ippudu phone chestunte edho weird ga, awkward ga undhi. It's been 20 minutes. Nenu callback cheyyaledhu, lift cheyyaledhu and cut kuda cheyyaledhu. I just ignored the call .

Ayana chala chesaru in both good and bad ways. Back in my mind I just respect him because he's my father and husband of my mother anthe. I don't think I have love towards him.

Honestly kontha mandhi maa friends fathers ni chustunte I feel "Arey, ilanti father unte baagundu naaku kuda" anipisthadhi. Aa affection maa madhyalo enduko ledhu. Maybe Aa gap undipoindhi kabatte evaraina valla parents ni tidutunte I feel very bad and I try to say not to do that.

Enduko naa pillalaki kuda ala absent father avuthanemo anipisthundhi. I know I'm overthinking an imaginary scenario. Ayana meedha edho unnamed emotion/feeling undipoindhi. Kopama?? Concern ah?? Did I forgave him??? Em artham kaadhu.

Emo, but ayana happy ga undali. 🙂🙂. Anthe.

Thanks for your time people.

So em ayyindi ante edi jarigi oka 2 months avuthundi so naaku oka Frnd last 5 years nundi manchi bond undi
So Vaadu verey iPhone konukunta ante nen vadi iPhone ammutha tesukuntava annadu I thought of taking one but na deggara antha money lekunde so em chesa nen appdudu appduud part time chesina money Inka ma akka ni konni adigi ma father ni kooda money adigi set chesukunna, Enduku ante ma father ki telavadu I am taking iPhone ani
Ma father Ela ante athaniki iPhone ante it’s a expensive ani okati telusu so nen edo android tesukunta ani chepi ekkuva tesukole oka 15k varaku tesukunna migithavi nen set chesukunna
Aythe Veediki nen aa money Motham kottesa
2 days aythundi Vaadu Inka phone konale intlo emo mummy aduguthunde
1 week ayyindi Inka phone rale
Nen kooda ma vade kada ani ukunna but intlo pressure ekkuva aypoindi intlo Dady ki phone konna ani telusu but chudale nen iga covering chesukunna but 2 weeks Tharuvatha naa opika kooda aypoindi
Seeda velli confront chesa entrance Edi ani Vaadu evvala nyt phone Pakka echestha ani annadu naathone undu annadu
Unna nyt varaku unde Vadini oka deggara dimpesi Vaadu Nak mobile echadu but, velle mundu Vadini verey deggara dimpanu ani cheppamanadu nak ardham kale
Return lo valla thammadu kalisadu vadiki cheppa verey place lo dimpa ani nen entiki return ayya chusthe ma father office nundi vacharu galliz ga esukunnaru Uke bayata tiruguthunna ani
Iga cut chesthe bhai nyt entiki rale nak Roju antha tirigi Malli intlo chores chesukoni padukunna nyt antha calls Maa Frnd ni ekkada dimpanu ani
Then chusthe telisindi Enti ante bhai intlo nundi dabbulu tesukoni vellipoyadu anta Vaadu kodtha phone kooda konale anta na vallane vellipoyadu anta nen bugga ma Frnd’s colony lo Motham tam tam ayyindi nene edo chesanu ani anadaru esukunnaru
Inka highlight nen verey place lo dimpa Anna kada Akkada chusi vethikaru anta then Malli ma father pilusthe ma relatives valla intlo koncham work unde Vella iga Veedu 1 day ayyindi Inka rale 2 days aythundi Inka rale
Nak ekkada bayam nen iga Nijam cheppesa ekkada dimpa ani nen vadi meeda nammakam tho cheppa abadham bcoz Vaadu vachestha nen entiki bayata appulu unayee kattukunta ani velladu
Iga police complaint echaru police trace chesaru 3 days tharuvtha Miyapur lo bhai valla girl friend tho chill avuthu dorikadu intiki vachaka vadiki em Ledu naake anadaru
Vaadu dimpamante dimpesthava adi edi ani esukunnaru
Iga nen aa colony povadam banjesa
See nenu naa situations valla esukunna but Vaadu nannu chala galliz ga mosam chesadu
I was confused and cornered everyone was on me but not on him
And I finally felt that kindness is never gonna pay back
Enduku ante bhai ki nen enthak mundu kooda dabbulu echa but Vaadu avi return cheyyadaniki yrs tesukunnadu ayina I forgave him but this was the ultimatum and I just left my Frnd’s there for a month and didn’t care about them but aa Frnd ki help chesinanduku chala regret avuthunna

Ante nen sachinattu arranged marriage e cheskovali , kani the thought of getting married only is just making me anxious.

Nen asal successful ga oka relationship , oka love e maintain cheyalekpoina ( paraphrase .. chasing guys is fun.. working to keep a relationship alive .. boring !!)

So ippud asal mukku mokam teliyani okabbai , oka 1-2 meets lo judge chesesi , life long love cheyagalutana ? Inni years penchina parents , sibling tho ne naku full problems untay day to day life lo .. ( i want things to be done in certain way .. konchem control freak )

So ippud pelli inaka what if he thinks i am trying to dominate him ? What if my athagaru villanizes me ? Naku bandalu bandhavyalu chuttalu ante chiraku .. ayanaki pedda family unte ela ? Fake navvulu navvuta nen undalen

Also na space antu naku kavali , overstimulate inappud i isolate myself .. appud vachi ila ala ani porupedithe ? I am protective of my stuff .. atla ani nenedo cheat chesthunna ani kadu but i don’t want him going through my stuff !!

Inka list undi .. kani ivanni chusaka anipistadi maybe i should not marry😂😂.. but intlo vallani face chese antha guts naku levvu .. himalayas ki vellipona ?

I met a beautiful girl in late 2024 at a networking event in Hyderabad, after my graduation. Later found out we stayed in the same PG. We started talking, just as friends. I was going through a bad breakup at that time (the relationship got extremely toxic and I broke up and blocked my ex). My ex sent me emails, called from different numbers, kind of abusive and all. This girl helped me go through it all. This girl also came out of a long term toxic relationship. At that time, I had decided and also casually told her that I would never date anyone to marry, I would genuinely never even marry and all that stuff (I still am that way). Even though I was upfront about my preferences, I managed to go out on dates. She sometimes even helped me go on dates with other girls as my wing girl. Our circle got bigger as her friend group and mine merged because of our friendship.

I seek peace. I would say "sorry, you are right" and walk away even when the other person has wrong views. But I love deep conversations, only when the other person can understand different perspectives and can express well. She's perfect in that aspect. She's deep, so deep for my heart to not melt lol. No discussion of ours turns into an argument even if we completely disagree on something. I respect such people. Though I started liking her, I didn't go through with that for a reason. But our dynamic had gradually shifted into platonic flirting. And.... we started dating. Nothing too serious, we've let each other know we like each other and just decided to see where it takes us.

She works at a big tech company and earns a lot. I used to just waste my money on useless courses and was basically aavaara. She encouraged me to build my portfolio and apply for jobs. She guided me to practicality when I was wandering in creative freedom seeking mindset. Even though now I work remotely at a startup, doing multiple things at once in that company, it's so fun. I'm thankful to her for that.

I moved back to my native city in January to take care of a dumb property dispute in my mom's side of the family. But I'm still here after it because I work remotely and got a bit comfortable at home lol. Five days ago, she told me she's moving to Canada to work for the company she's in. >!Surprisingly, it brought me relief, even though I like her. Even I was shocked by the way I felt. She's perfect lifelong partner material. Anyone would say I am fumbling.!<

She's coming to visit this weekend, to meet me once before she leaves for Canada. The city I am in doesn't have many places worth visiting. She just told me the city doesn't seem bad for a one-day visit. She's going to drive alone for around 300 kilometers just to meet me! She's someone who likes me for who I am. I got nothing written on me that says "stable" lol. Quite the opposite actually. She earns a lot and she even comes from money. Her family is well off, if not rich. Her family is quite liberal. I've visited them several times. >!She says she'll come to India in a few months just to visit me again. She hasn't even gone to Canada yet, and still planning to visit me again! I don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt her. I feel terrible.!<

>!Reason for my dilemma: I am 22 now and will turn 23 next month. She turned 30 four months ago. We were talking one day around the middle of last year, and I told her "You check all my boxes, I would've definitely dated you if I was older." She looked me deep in the eyes and asked "What's stopping you now?" That's how it started.!<

Movies ante manaki chala intrest kada ala a place dagaraki veli chusthunam m chesthunaru ani akada director chala famous so dagarki veli ila photo adguthe randi ani photo ichesaru..hero Apudu osthunaru ani adigam...knch sepatlo ostharu..anaru so after sometime we went to that place again..Apudu hero ni chusam..photos kosam try chesthunam kani akadi daka velanivaledhu...so caravan dagara ki velam bro photo kavali ani aduthe tarvata ani chepinde..so afternoon 3 ki ala velam photo kosam mrng aina knch ma side chusedu esari asal pilusthunte kuda alane velipoyadu patinchukokunda...!!

A hero ki antha pedda hit lu m lekuna...attitude matram chala akva undhi anpinchindi.. atleast cheppochu ga ipudu kudardhu ani dekakunda velipoindu..🥲

But director is ❣️❣️❣️

I am from Rajahmundry, and near my grandmother's house there's a very traditional Brahmin priest (pujari) family. I recently heard that there was a wedding in their house. Apparently, they don't invite outsiders or even let the neighbours know, but people usually find out through house helps.

From what I was told, the groom was around 15–16 years old, and the bride was under 10 and hadn't even reached puberty yet. My mother also said that this family has a practice of marrying all their grandchildren at a very young age—girls before puberty and boys when they're around 14–17.

I was honestly shocked to hear this. I know my own grandparents were married at a young age too, but that was almost 80–90 years ago. It's disturbing to think that in 2026, child marriages might still be happening in some places.

Has anyone else heard of or come across similar incidents in their area?

So emaindhante my bestfriend's father was admitted in hospital in a very critical condition in the last week, and doctors suggested operation. I wanted to visit her but she didn't let me coz few relatives cameover. 6+yrs of friendship madhi.

Operation aipoindhi, and 2 days ki conscious loki ocharu, and after family, he asked about me anta 🥹 let my name be Z.

Uncle: Z nannu chuddaniki na kosam osthadha?

My friend: ostadi nanna kani tanaki office undhi

Uncle: avuna, sare selavu unnappudu rammanu, chudalani undhi.

She has few other close frnds also, but Uncle vallevarni adagaledu(3days back adigaru), and she told me this yesterday night, I was like enduku intha lag mundhe cheppochuga ani.

And i went today mrng, met her and kasepu aunty tho maatlada and then I visited Uncle, expect cheyaledhanta nannu, his expression spoke more than words😭.

Uncle: aree nanna nuvva, nakosam occhava!

Me: mi kosam rakunda untana, aina enti miru cheppina maata vinatledhanta

Uncle: vinaledhu ra anduke ila aipoya

Me: sare poni odileyandi, ippudu vinandi, enchakka ach vellipodhamm, emantaru

Uncle: sare veldham

It was my first time like past 5yrs lo seeing someone in icu- telsu kadha akkada em em untayo, ah hadividi, konchem bhayamesindi. And nenu inka konni words tho dhairyam cheppa Uncle ki, and then he asked me how I'm, my job, my life.

Ala kasepu matladaka inka ma frnd adigindi, happy ah- first time tanu nakosam rakunda ni kosam ochindi ani, Uncle was like- haa, ma Mahalakshmi ni chusesaga, inka nakem ani annaru🥹, when we went inside initially BP 180-190 undhi, and during the convo it dropped to 120-130, I was very happy seeing that.

and then I took promise from Uncle, that inkeppudu smoke cheyaru ani( This was the main reason behind the sickness) and naku promise chesaru- but one exception, okkasari oka 2 ma frnd pellilo anta, I agreed. So appativaraku I was holding back my tears even though I'm talking, maybe notice chesinattunaru.

Inka jokes vesaru konni, general ga kuda chala chill untaru, and I finally laughed! inka ma frnd ki cheparu, ikkada daggarlo paradise biryani baguntadi- vellandi or order petkondi ani, tanu sare andhi, and Uncle annaru nen malli adugutha tanani tarvatha tindho ledho. Ma frnd- " sare biryani eh tintadi, entha kavalante antha"😂.

And then uncle ki konni jagrathalu cheppesi, blessing tiskoni ochesa and biryani tinnam😅 and then again spent some time with aunty and while leaving I gave her a tight hug.

So naku ardam aindhi entante, not just based on one situation, but our loved ones presence matters a lot, entha costly hospital ayina, treatment aina avvochu but some parts are really healed by ppl, and life lo entha low lo or worst phase lo unna kuda, arey em kadha ra antha set avtadi- mem unnam, you can do this ani dhairyam cheppe vallu chalu 🤍.

Indhaaka maa cousin anna video call chesaadu, maa kodal pillani chupinchadaaniki. Dhaanitho maatlaadi enni rojulu aindho asala. She'll turn 2 next month. Ee madhya evaraina video call cheste, ventane aapey aapey ani, red button nokkesthondhi anta. Ivaala maatram naa adrustam, chaala sepe undhi. Asala enni kotha maatalu nerchukundho, konnitiki aithe, nenu shock aipoyaanu.

Maa anna kalla jodu tho aadukuntu unde adhi. Maa anna itu ichey irigipothundhi ante, cheyyi ooputu, em kaavu(em kaadhu) anta..Adhi kuda evo bomma specs pettukuni*, super baavu*(baagundhi) 👌🏼 anta....inka emanna ante, madhya madhyalo em te(emi telidhi) ani antondhi...adhento prathidhi cheyyi ooputhu cheptundhi, maa nayanamma laaga🤣.

Inka aam(annam) tinnaava ante, thu anta..ante tinaledhu, ummesaa ani.... and adhemo dookuthu unde, jagratha debbalu tagultaayi ante, cream raachi (cream(ointment) rayyachu) antaa..entha telivi thetalo asala😂.

Inka maa anna, bike drive chese mundhu, maa vadhina ekkaaka, veldhaama ani adagatam gamaninchi, adhi kuda ee madhya venakki tirigi veldaam?? ani antondhanta, start ayye mundhu🫠

Nenu indhaaka eppudostaav ikkadiki, raavachu kadha ante. nuvve raa ani, dookochey atha, dookochey atha(dooki vachey) anta.. dhaani drushtilo, dookithe, somehow dhaani daggaraki vachesta ani🫠. Ee system edho undunte, eppudo vellipoyunde dhaani daggaraki. konchem ilaanti system edho kanipettandamma scientist-lu.. and adhi cheppadam kuda, phone daggaraki vachi, naaku dooki chupisthu cheptondhi, padhe padhe, dookochey atha, dookochey ani🤣🤣

ento chaala fast gaa peddavaallu aipotunnaru pilallu🫠..ninna gaaka monna puttinattundhi adhi, appude inni maatalu maatlaadesthondhi..

So ,I went into a relationship with a guy, vadu naku schl frnd ee and felt that he is good person. But sudden ga propose chesadu, and I said no, but then he tried to convince me and he cried and all emo* stuff, appuduokay nanu love chestunadu ga bane chuskuntademo ankuna. But then we wre in ldr, relationship ki oche sarki he couldn't do even the basic thing I expected which was him to understand me and my problems and how I feel. So, ade repeatedly jarge sarki this led into fyts and i somehow thought this cannot work for a long time ani ,then i tried making him understand and gave him a lot of chances to change because I was the only person adjusting even if he doesn't put effort or time into relation. And one day i realised this is not where i want to be because he started using some telugu cuss words on me . And then he told all of this happened bcz of his health condition ,mental states, family black magic and stuff. His friends started accusing me of him being in worst health condition. So, I thought that I cant be so cruel and leave him atp, so i stayed ,but still he continues doing the same, so idantha kadani oka day i walk out and tell that nenaithe ellipothunna nitho nen undalenu asalke ,nuvvu maratlevu roju na mental state karab avtundi ani then he started saying nik nen chavalanundi nen chasta nuv lekapothe ani he tried it so many times so bcz of which i just stayed and tried to change his mind that ending lyf is not an option but he repeated saying that multiple times I was getting so tensed whenever he was unavailable on phone. Malli idantha avatle asalu roju bayapadalsi ostundi ekada ide situation ,relaion lo lyf long undalani anduke i malli few days back i closed it up and went again he tried ending his lyf and bcz of which he was hospitalised in the mean time his brother started accusing me ni vallane ila aindi ni vallane he tried ending his lyf , idantha aindi kabati our whole family is now suffering ani, he threatened me saying itla cheste mee intiki osta ranu ani chepte mee intiki ochi mee parents tho matladta undakunda theda cheste ade ayyedi ani. So, I am stuck in this situation where I don't want to bother my parents and bring a bad name ,or create disturbances in my family bcz I dont wanna let them know i was in a relation or etc. So, is there a way to get out of this situation without letting this to my parents hands?? And i just don't want to go ps, and create nuisance, deeni experience evarkaina unte chepandi or else mee frnds lo chusi unte .

Entamma enti visheshaluu?

Evaraina nsfw panulu(formerly panilu inka dobbakandi) chesaro ee thread lo... ban chesi dobbuta.

Alane How about we share one favorite song every day?? Or a movie to discuss? Or top headlines? Pettandi ra pettandi..