r/TeluguJournals

Entamma enti visheshaluu?

Evaraina nsfw panulu(formerly panilu inka dobbakandi) chesaro ee thread lo... ban chesi dobbuta.

Alane How about we share one favorite song every day?? Or a movie to discuss? Or top headlines? Pettandi ra pettandi..

I am 23 M

Life oka decision theeskunna..

Okavela Marriage cheskunte.. I don't want kids.. nenu, naa bharya anthe..

Love ayina, laugh ayna, godava ayina naa pellam thone..

I think Kids lekapothe life partner tho ekkuva time spend cheyochu naa love Ekkadiki divert kadhu.. kids, valla future tensions undavu. Idharam Ekkadiki eyina trip ki povalante Happy ga vellochu. Finances thagguthay..

Unnantha kalam okariki okaram annatlu like ( mithunam movie lo spb & lakshmi couple laa..) ekantham lo brathikeyochu.

I don't know what others think. In future, Society may judge me in future. But I don't care. That is my decision.

Pellichoopllo kooda cheptha fair ga ok ayithe ok

Lekapothe single gane brathikestha. Naa life lo nen okavela single migilipothe ela brathakalo plan kooda cheskunna.

nijam ga pelli tarwatha kids odhu anukune ammaylu unnara. Nene delusion lo brathikesthunnana ? ?

Idk, chaala situations lo anipisthundi, but ivala it hit me so hard.

Anthaka mundu, when we used to discuss about something at home, I used to shout a lot (short tempered le nenu). Vallu kasepu odilese vallu 'idhi pichidi le' ani, tarvata nene cool aipoyedanni. Then they used to talk to me and explain me stuff. Ipatiki kuda adhi em maraledhu le, adhi vere vishayam.

But, these days, I am realising that, they too are getting tired. A lot. Family drama, daily routine, 'pillalu inka chinnavallu' ani oka pressure.

Anthaka mundu vallu frustrate aithe, nenu kuda arichesedanni. But, ipudu, I'm realising that 'okay, pedda vallu avthunaru, its normal' ani I started to shut up (adhi kuda anni sarlu avatledu le). Maa thammudiki kuda chepthuna, ardham cheskovali kadha ani.

Ivala nanna ki cold ochindi. Valla room lo AC pani cheyaledhu. Nanna maa room ki ochi padukunaru. He looked so tired and ee madhyakalamlo ala chudale. Suddenly realised he's 50.

Baita evarinaina chusinapudu 50 years anukunte, oh chaala peddavaru anipisthundi. But maa nanna naa chinapudu ela unaro, ipudu ala ne unaru (he takes good care of how he looks), which is making it even more difficult for me to accept the fact.

Suddenly, edchesa. Em cheyalo ardham kaledu.

'Ee job ivanni maney nanna, nenu chuskunta' ani chepali anukunna. But ik their answer, 'aadapilla degara thiskodam enti, em akkarledhu' (yes, maa family lo inthe). Idhe antaru. Thiskoru. And I hate it.

If I was a boy, ee baadha undedi kadhemo.

This is not even 1% of what I am feeling right now.

Hey! I am 23f working as a software developer at a fintech. Work is hectic and i am the only female on a 20-30 member team and it gets depressing sometimes. I dread going to office. I am trying to switch jobs and unfortunately it’s leading nowhere. If anyone of you can help with referrals it would mean a lot

Hey guys,

Basically Paina pettindhe.. people Adi korukuntaru kaani… beebatsamaina experience tho Nak Ardam ayindi Enti ante… avi vunte full ga aadukuntaru…

Idi one time kaadu two times experience chesanu.. first lo baane appreciate chestaru kaani.. tarvata tarvata ade alusu ga teeskuni munchestaru..

Chinnapatininchi beebatsaimaina empathy.. ekkuva aalochinchesta Papam feel ayyaremo, Papam kada hurt avtaru ga…(overacting people exception) aa empathy ey Nannu munchesindi…

Actually antha vundakudadhu ani tagginchukovali ani anukunta.. but Adi Nenu kaadu kada anipistadi.. so manam evari joliki vellakunda muskuni vundadam better ani inka vadilesa.. !!

But recent ga tanu kuda empathetic ga anipinchindi.. Sarle ani continue aithe Malli alusu ga teeseskundi…

Enni sarlu tagilina buddhi raaledu guys 😂😂.. raadu kuda Emo..🤷‍♂️

na age 28. present job ledhu. friends leru ( trust me i got zero friends) recent gaaa ma akka chanipoyaru. akka unapudu teliyaledhu enthaa prema gaa chuskunedho nannu ani. pichodni kadhaaa ardam ayyi saavale unapudu akka value. Urike chiraku pade vadni arichese vadni ( chala sarlu irikinchesdhi nannu cigarette tagge time lo or something like that) akka chanipoye mundhu hospital lo nenu ey unnanu natho enno chepukundhi papa ni baga chuskovali ani inka apude puttina babu gurinchi bava gurinchi inkaa yekuva sepu amma gurinchi. sare death ni manam em chestham time anthe undhi ayipoyindhi anykoni move on avali. kani akka chanipoyakaa chala kashtam ga undhi evariki chepalenu asalu evaru ayina unte kadha chepadaniki. amma nanna inka badha padatharu nenu idhi chepthe. Vala mundhu edho strong person la build up istha na mohaniki adhi okati malli.

ipudu ipude okasari na life entra ani venaku tirigi chuskunte anipisthundhi nenu intha pedha failure and looser ani.

sudden gaaa friends matladam manesaru. Naku undedhi gattiga thippi thippi kodithe 5 friends. School lo mugguru inter lo zero and btech lo 2. okaadu ante okkadu kuda ipudu leru naku. normal time lo ante ok kani akka chanipoyindi raa ani chepthe kanisam aa msz ki kuda reply ivaledhu. dabbulu job unapude vasthai emo calls ila problems unte vadhileyadame friendship anukunta.

almost 6 7 years ga parchiyam unna online lo meet ayina iddaru sisters unaru valaki idhi chepukolenu.

Idhi antha okati aithe love chesina ammayi Kavalisina anthaa time enjoy chesi last ki idhi fling bongu situationship ani poyindhi. Dhani valaa na job poyindhi adhi vere katha. Aa trauma nunchi baytaki ravadaniki one year paine patindhi naku.

point enti ante naku anipisthundhi na life lo naaa anukone valu na gurinchi nilabade valu natho unde valu leru raruuu emo ani. antadu kadhu edho cinema lo konni jeevithalu anthe ani.. nadhi kuda alantidhi ey.

Asalu yedhi happiness ivadam ledhu, adhi kuda kadhu kanisam basic emotions ni feel avalekuna genuine ga. Lopala dead purthiga, empty, exhausted. dheni medha interest ravadam ledhu. chala force cheskuntuna nannu nenu movies chudatam kani baytaki velladam but nothing is really working.

Hopefully edho oka miracle jarigi nenu heartful ga navvithe bagundu anipisthundhi kani adhi ayela ledhu.

తెలుగులో మీకు ఇష్టమైన పదాలు ఉన్నాయా? ఉంటే అవి ఏవీ?

ఉదాహరణకు నాకు ఇష్టమైన పదాలు కొన్ని:

1. ఉభయకుశలోపరి

2. మొహమాటం

3. ప్రణయం

4. ముచ్చట

ఇలా ఇంకా ఎన్నో ఉన్నాయి. అదేదో చిత్రంలో త్రివిక్రమ్ గారు చెప్పినట్లు, ద్వేషానికి కారణాలు ఉంటాయి కానీ, ఇష్టానికి కారణాలు అక్కర్లేదు.

By the way telugu chadavatam raani vaaru unnara ikkada?

Genuine doubt.. how exactly are people deciding if a girl is ‘low maintenance’ or ‘high maintenance’ these days?

Like… enjoying a coffee at a cafe on weekends, dressing well, skincare, wanting decent effort and experiences = high maintenance aa?

Or is ‘low maintenance’ just someone who never asks for anything? 🤡

Ninna ma cousin vachadu , na mokam chusi bottu edi annadu ( this is not the first time , happens every time ) asal mana culture antha brushtu pattisthunnaru .. bottu pettukokunda ani , na mokam , na bottu , na istam .. naku nachinappud pettukunta , nachakpothe pettukonu period
Dinike na respect poindi ante kadu .. it happens every fuckin time so naku irritation vastadi .. inka e sari oka mettekesi na mundu mokam lo bottu lekunda raku anesadu

E roju gudiki poina , thottelo vesudu program of my nephew . Oka long chuttam vadina , chala rojulu indi kada ani premaga hug cheskunna … abba , ninduga saripoyinava anta 😭😭😭.. daniki pakkane unna ma bil ( cousin ki husband ) idigo e meme chudu repu ma tammudiki correct ga set itadi anta ( kitakitalu , allari naresh pelli mandapam scene ) lopala mandipothundi paiki matram haha nenu bakkodni cheskonu le ani navvesa

Enda full ga kodthundi ani umbrella pattukoni poyunti , return avthunte .. same cousin undi nike na umbrella na kodukki leda annadu .. inda tisko ani ichesa .. pakkane unna ma vadina ( wife of the cousin ) nijanga istunnava andi .. ha tisko vadina anna .. inkopakka nundi ma akka ( sister of the cousin) haa emundi adi free ga vachindi kabatti isthundi anta 🙏… ni amma , 45 degrees endalo chinnapillodu ani na umberella icheste e dialogue endi 😓

Induke nen asal evar pilichina ponu , kani mari oorlone untu kuda pokapothe bagodu ani poina .. this happened

Tldr: rant on relatives

Ivala oka supermarket ki poyi intiki kavalsina sugar packet techa. Indulo special enti antava? Nenu supermarket ki bandi meeda poya.

Indulo mari inkemi special antava? Nenu gear bike lo poya ☺️☺️☺️

That's it, today I drove a gear bike alone for the first time without anyone accompanying me. 😊

For context, I already know how to ride a scooter. Ma intlo epati nuncho Activa undi. Ma intlo andaru Activa tolutaru.. my dad, mom and me. My dad ey ekkuva vadutaru. My mom and me rare ga vadutam. But recent ga ma mom daily podduna oka gudiki povali ani cheppi ma daddy second hand lo Splendor teeskunaru. Teeskuni o 7-8 months avutundi. But recent ga enduko naku aa bike meda povali ani aasa. Ma daddy summer lo elago vadatledu because of the heat. Heat valla ayina ekkuvaga car lo ne potunnaru.

So ma daddy ni nerpamanna. First two days ma dad drive chesthe nenu venukala kurchunna. Aa gear ela marchali epudu marchali ani cheparu. 3rd day nenu try chesa. Almost ventane ochesindi. But oka two days just ma inti mundu road meeda matrame tolanu. Aa oka chinna road ee end to aa end continuous ga back and forth try chesa. 6th and 7th day ma colony lo matrame tiriga.

Inka final ga ivala oka supermarket ki poya which is 2 kilometres away. Adento Scooty enni sarlu toluntano.. aina kuda aa bayam and aa kotha tanam. Nenu main highway meeda poledu. But dani adjacent road which is also a big road lone poyi ocha. Intiki sugar tho raagane ma daddy mummy inka nannu tega congratulate chesi inka ma daddy ee sandarbham ga biryani kuda konaroch 🥰🥰🥰

Bike riding mari antha difficult kadu.. and it feels really special. And indulo highlight entante na eduru oka guy was walking.. he stopped dead in his tracks and looked at me with wonder and amazement. Tanu just watched me with such surprise. Tanu ala chusesariki naku chala siggu vesindi and murisipoya. But I realised that I was about to get distracted and lose control. I immediately brought myself together and focused on the ride. Inka supermarket reach ayyaka supermarket lo tanu shock ayyina vidanam taluchukuni nenu siggu tho almost sachipoya 😚😚😚

So yeah, I'm proud of what I did today and wanted to share here. I only drive 40 KMPH. Ante Scooty ne nenu anthe speed lo tolutha. This won't be any different. Plus inka nenu main road and highways ekkaledu. I'll practice more to the tune where I become comfortable riding this anywhere.

Mostly everyone has a first crush in their school days, and I had one too. Her name was Ramya. We studied together from 2nd class to 5th class, and again in 8th class. She was the prettiest girl in the entire school back then.

How we met was a bit awkward. I was a mischievous kid in 2nd class, and I was always cracking jokes with my friend. Ma teacher idhi chusi nannu ammayila madhyalo kurchopettadu you know right, this was back then to shame guys, they’d make them sit on the girls bench. It was most embarrassing to me. Anyway, who was sitting on that bench? Yes, Ramya. For the first time, I’ve seen her and she’s pretty. Actually, we didn’t speak much, as she was too shy and she’s the class topper.

Anyway, we studied till 5th class, but we hardly spoke. 6th and 7th class lo nenu verey school ki vellanu, but thanu same school lo undipoyindi. So, 7th class lo naku kotta school lo kotta friends ayyaru, range perigindi, chaduvu dobbindi. So, nenu cheppanu na new friends ki thanu chala baguntundi, patha school lo unde ammayi ani

Next year 8th class ki malli nenu same old school ki vellanu. Thana birthday vachesi December 25th, so na friends andaru kalisi okka watch konnaru. Rey mama, Ramya valla intiki velli ee gift petti vaddam, ani chepparu. So chala bhayam tho 3 friends kalisi December 25th, 2011 lo thana inti mundala watch petti vachesam.

Na daridram entante, aa gift meeda na name raasaru! Ma friends adi naku return route lo chepparu. Naku full bhayam vesindi. Aroju holiday, Christmas, so next day school ki vachanu. To my surprise, thanu na watch pettukuni vachindi! Ma friends andaru, Mama, thanu set niku annaru, but she never thanked me or never spoke with me.

But ma iddari madya love tension anedi undedi eppudu. Class lo andariki telusu i love her ani.

Adi Teachers Day 8th class lo unnappudu. You know right, Teachers Day roju school students teachers laaga getup vesi classes cheptharu? So, thanu English teacher anamata. Aroju man, she wore a saree with back sleeves, she's so damn pretty! Enduku aa roju naku special ante, thanu maku class chepthundi English, and nenu ma friend venakala godava chesthunnam. Sudden ga na vaipu chusi, Prakash, shut up! anindi. For the first time since 2nd class, thanu na name petti pilichindi. Hell, nijam cheppalante, na name kuda telidu anukunna thanaki! Because madyalo 2 years gap vachindi but she still remember my name.

Anyway, 9th-10th nannu hostel lo padesaru ma parents, school lo repeated complaints valla.tarwatha inka eppudu thanani chudaledu. Na watch undo ledo ippudu, thanatho! 140rs bokka 2011 lo, appatlo 140 ante naku 1k ippati currency lo!

Hi we are right now I am 27[M] my gf is 22 [F]. I am belongs to OC community and she is belongs to BC community. I don't have any problem with her community.

We are Telugu Guys from Andhra Pradesh. I am in Hyderabad searching for IT Job. She was in Ahemdabad. She went to Ahmedabad for studies.

I will tell what was happened and happening on time line basis. Like chronological order..

18.12.2022 - We met first time on Instagram. She said I am MBBS student Right now I am In Ahmedabad my age is 21. We share some information on conversations. It's kind of long distance relationship.

We made calls and chatted for around 6 months.

March 2023 - i moved from my home town to Hyderabad for software Coaching.

31.5.2023 - she had summer holidays. Thats why she is going to her Home town. On the way, she came to Hyderabad. I booked flight ticket from Ahmedabad to Hyderabad with my money. We spend around 2 days in Hyderabad. Then she went to Her home town.

17. 6.2023 - she is return back to her college. On the way she came to Hyderabad. She bought UPSC books to prepare for UPSC exams. Together We stayed around 1 week in Hyderabad. Then she went to college.

15.10. 2023 - she again came to Hyderabad by flight. We stayed and spend some time in Hyderabad. Then she went to Ahemdabad.

Her parents didn't know about her Hyderabad trips.

18.12.2023 - on this date, she was in Ahemdabad and she said to me a fact she was engaged to another man Ravi that Engagment was happened in March 2022. I don't know about her engagement till December 2023.She said like my parents were forced me that's why I said ok to Engagment but I never liked Ravi. I don't have interest on him. Even He didn't have Job or income source at that Engagment time. By the time Ravi age around 28[M]. She is 18[F]. Now he is 32[M], she is 22[F]. They Both are belongs to same village.

She said some other things to me.

I am not a MBBS student. I am B.SC degree student.

Her parents doesn't know about her education clearly.

In June 2022 - I(she) said to my parents like i got a MBBS admission in Ahmedabad. Thats why I am going to pursue my studies in Ahemdabad. She convinced her parents. So then her parents joined her in Ahemdabad college. At the time of admission She said her problem to that addmissioner and managed there. Her parents believes like our daughter pursuing MBBS but actually she is studying B.SC Degree.

I asked her about all these things on 18.12.2023... She said like If I stay in my home Town, definitely my parents are going to marry me off to him. To came out from home & to avoid marriage I said i got MBBS seat in Ahmedabad. She said Ravi got a private job His salary would be like 15k or 16k in 2022.

2023 - I (me) attended to multiple interviews but I didn't get a job in IT sector. Then I changed my mind .

February - August 2024 - she made and earns around 2 laks by doing network marketing

From April - September 2024 - I got a job in sales department. 5 months i did the job. After i resigned to it.

June 2024- she came to Hyderabad..then we went to tirupati trip.

October 2024- in October 2024, she got a Credit card from a bank. We used it for our personal expenses.

December 2024 - she said to her parents like i am going to do internship in Hyderabad for 3 months. They said ok.

2024 - she came to Hyderabad multiple times by flight. We traveled and satyed together. She helped me if I don't have money.she helped me lot of times. But her parents didn't know about her travellings or college Leaves.

Ravi often talks to my GF. May be once or twice in a month he had conversation with my GF.

This year, too, has passed away. Meanwhile College holidays time, she went to her home town.. there her relatives and village neighbours asked her or her parents about marriage. They( her parents ) said like after completion of Her education they gonne Marry to her with Ravi.

January 2025 - she came to Hyderabad for internship. stayed in pg. After 1 month she went back to her college.

April 2025 - Her grand mother was died.

May 2025 - Her final year exams were completed. But she stayed in college till June ending.

June 2025 - we had discussion related what is next. She said I stay here (ahemdabad ) only.then i asked her what would you do over there after completion of education. Then I said another thing. Come to Hyderabad learn a skill ( in coaching institute), then we will search for a Job in IT sector.

July 2025 - she came to Hyderabad joined in PG. I am staying with my friends in our flat. We both are not living together. We stayed separately. Her parents didn't know about she was moved to Hyderabad. Her parents thought that she is in Ahmedabad. In July we ( me, my GF) went to Munnar trip. Then we came back from trip.

August 2025 - she got a another Credit card from bank. Aftet trip she never join in any institute to learn skill. So then she tried for non IT jobs. After 2 or 3 interview attempts, she said like i don't like this environment. So I don't have interest to do this kind of jobs. Then I asked her what would gonna do. She said like i will prepare for UPSC exams.

in this month One strange and import thing was happened this month. My Gf's grandfather made an allegation on Her mother(mf gf mom) & Ravi( my Gf s fiance) like my gf mother has extramarital affair with Ravi. I don't know why he (mf GF grandfather) made that allegation on them. No major conflict took place at that time. After this issue happened, still marriage was not cancelled.

September 2025 - So then I suggested her.. ok do one thing. My friend's sister is preparing for UPSC exams in Hyderabad. I said to her(my Gf) like i will talk to my friend, so you(my gf) have to meet her(my frnd sister) and have conversation, stay for few weeks or months with her And observe things like about syllabus, prepration, exams etc. what was happened, she(my gf) never met her didn't get anything from her( my frnd sister) about UPSC. I suggested her another thing, go to near study room.. there prepare for UPSC. But She did nothing related to UPSC.

December 2025 - in this month she went to her college for convocation. But we both don't have money. So she took a loan from an app. I am paying it's emi every month.

2025 - From September onwards, I paid her hostel fees. I padi charges for the rotation of credit cards. every month I paid her EMIs.

This year, too, has passed away. Ravi knows about her ( my Gf) education like she is not studying MBBS, she is pursuing B.SC. but he(Ravi) never tells to her(my gf) parents. He(Ravi) never build a communication or relationship with my GF. Ravi often talks to my GF. May be once in a month he had conversation with my GF in mobile calls.

April 2026 - My Gf went to her home town. She stayed around 1 month over there. In this month her parents told to her (my gf), Next March 2027, we will get you and Ravi married. One day, Ravi andy My Gf went to outside for casual talk. There she said NO to Ravi , I(my Gf) am not gonna marry you . Till now he(Ravi) never responded on the marriage topic.

May 2026 - my gf came back to Hyderabad. We had conversation and discussions. Now she wants to move to Delhi for UPSC exams preparation. Till now she never prepared for UPSC EXAMS. Not even single book was completed or revised.

Till now her parents believe she(my Gf) is studying MBBS. After completion of MBBS, she is going to prepare for NEET- PG exam. She is going to take money for NEET-PG coaching from her parents but actually she is going to prepare for UPSC.

I said to her don't make mistakes one after another. Go and tell to your parents about what was happened. But she never wants to tell to her parents.

She(my gf) said I will marry you(me) only Not Ravi. But she asks me like i need some time to marry you. I will prepare for UPSC. If I select or got a job in UPSC, then it is easy thing to convince my parents to marry you(me). She said, Right now I don't want marriage.

From September 2025 to till date.. around i spent 4,00,000 to 4,50,000. It includes my expenses as well as her expenses like Hostel feels , EMI, monthly pocket money etc...

Now.. She needs around 4 to 4.5 laks for UPSC coaching in delhi. Her dad is going to give around 2 laks for coaching (her dad knows she is going to preparing for NEET-PG not a UPSC). Now she asking me around 2 to 2.5 laks for UPSC coaching in Delhi.

I am planning to establish a business. Still I am struggling. I don't have Job.

Some what my Gfs financial condition is better than me. She is financially stronger than me.

So

Now what options do I have right now. What would I do now. Give me suggestion.

Note - Respect ladies and women.plz Don't abuse anyone.plz Don't make vulgar comments.

I (28M) met a sweet person (25F) through a dating app, and we have been talking for over three and a half weeks now. However, the initial two weeks involved slow and steady conversations as she was dealing with a family crisis. So I ensured she had my presence to vent when things were exhausting or to hear her thoughts for making any decisions regarding the ongoing situations.

Things started sorting out on her end, and finally we got into those classic virtual dating stuff like random truth or dare questions, getting to know each other, and quirky flirting when either of us was low on a given day. And we finally decided to have our first date soon, and things were going well as she even asked me directly to meet her parents to talk about getting married out of nowhere.

So I want to genuinely work on it and make sure we set clear expectations before deciding. I am not from Vizag, and she's from Hyderabad, which is literally a few minutes' flight from HYD. We are from the same religion and are Telugu-speaking, so I thought there would be no issues, and everything looked fine until I mentioned I'm in Hyderabad for job purposes but my native place isn't here. The conversation became more silent from her end, and it was unexpected. So I tried to relieve the pressure and explained to her that it's basically the same state until politicians wanted it for their own merits, and there's nothing to worry about. I am also fine to relocate here until I retire, maybe because recently I had a discussion with my parents about buying a home here. So, it would at least be a passive income if not used for living by me, but I couldn't say that as I thought it would add more pressure on her. However, my extended family are all spread here in Hyderabad, so it's nothing strange for me. My uncle and aunt got married in the same setup where he's from Hyd and my aunt is from Vizag. I shared this with this girl I'm talking to and ensured it's nothing complicated as my uncle and aunt are happily married. But she didn't reply like she usually does, so I just let that pause for the day and just ensured her not to overthink anything for now and said good night.

So we haven't texted each other today yet. I'm curious, would it be fine to wait until she contacts me, as she's clearly under pressure right now, or should I just break the ice and try to relieve some of that pressure for her? Perhaps I could properly explain my point of view and discuss the relocation. I need all your wise and insightful knowledge right now.

E yenda ki Evarikaina ekkada aina manchi oka cheruvu/ swimming pool..lo gani Swim kottali ani undha...

Naku aithe picha pichaga undhi asalu..enti bhayya e yenda.. 😰

Kani ma side lev. Avvani only beach ey undhi.. Kani beach lo anthaga anipiyadhu.

Kani mostly bavilu ekuva rayalseema. TG lo untai..

Meku yala anipisthundi e Baga baga mande yenda ki 😮‍💨..

Democracy? What democracy? chi

World's largest democratic country ani oka peru.. freedom of speech sachipothundi ante emo ankunna

These are just a myth now.

Sovereign, Secular, democratic Republic avem undav