What does "crush" even mean ?

What does "crush" even mean ?

I genuinely want to know what having a crush actually means. Is it just physical attraction or is it something more than that?

Because whenever people ask Who’s your crush? everyone seems to have an answer 😭 Some people even say "l proposed to my crush" and I’m like… how?? If it’s just physical attraction, how do you decide that you actually like someone based on that?

If you ask me, I’ve never really had a crush on someone IRL 😂 As a kid, whenever someone asked who my crush was, I’d just say Atharva because he was a celebrity and I thought he looked good. Growing up, I’d see someone and think “oh, he’s good-looking” and that’s it. I’d just move on. Never had that feeling of "omg I have a crush on this person"

I’ve also never been in a relationship till date. I did like a guy once and the feeling was mutual, but I wouldn’t call him my crush. I liked him because of his personality, social standards and looks, but we both knew that relationship wouldn’t work out for us in the future, so we never got into one.

So I genuinely don’t know what qualifies as a crush 😭

Like, is it just finding someone attractive? Thinking about them a lot? Wanting to be around them? Actually wanting to date them? Or is it some weird combination of all of this?

u/Upset_Interest_1224 — 1 day ago

High protein sprouts curry

Recipe: Add paneer, tomato, onions, and coriander. Let them cook until soft, then blend the mixture into a smooth paste. Heat a pan and add some butter or oil. Add 2 cloves, 1 stick of cinnamon, and 1 cardamom (elaichi), and saute. Then add thinly sliced onions and tomatoes and cook until soft. Add the prepared paste and cook until the oil starts to separate. Lastly, add the sprouts and let everything cook for 10 minutes. Done ✔️

u/Upset_Interest_1224 — 1 day ago

High protine sprouts curry

Recipe:

Add paneer, tomato, onions, and coriander. Let them cook until soft, then blend the mixture into a smooth paste. Heat a pan and add some butter or oil. Add 2 cloves, 1 stick of cinnamon, and 1 elaichi, and saute. Then add thinly sliced onions and tomatoes and cook until soft. Add the prepared paste and cook until the oil starts to separate. Lastly, add the sprouts and let everything cook for 10 minutes. Done ✔️

u/Upset_Interest_1224 — 1 day ago

Meet the 3 tiny potatoes currently running my life 😭

Ma inti nunchi vegetable market ki velle darilo oka dog untadi. Nenu appudappudu daniki biscuits istu unde. Tarvata adi pregnant ani telisindi, and around 10 days back 4 budda budda puppies bayataki ochayi. 🥹

Happy family ankuna… kani ento, just 3 days tarvata aa mom ekkadiki vellindo kanipinchakunda poindi. 😭 Morning nunchi puppies ni observe chestunte, only 3 unnayi and their mom still hasn’t come back. I’m pretty sure they were hungry, so em cheyalo ardam kaka intlo unna milk ni vedi chesi challarchi, 3 chinna cups lo petta.

At first, avi tagagalava ani kuda doubt they were barely 4 days old and just bayapaduthu ala nadustunnayi. But 10 minutes tarvata chusthe… cups empty and their little tummies full! Cute ga bojjunayie 😭🤧 I was SO happy.

Tarvata buffalo milk newborn puppies ki suitable kaadu ani telisi, vet shop ki velli puppy formula powder techanu. Ippudu daily 3 times formula istunna, taguthayie bojjuntayie repeat 🫠

As of now, ila oka month varaku chusukoni, konchem strong ayyaka survival nerchukuntayi ankuntuna. Intiki tiskeldam ante already ma inti kinda inko cute dog family ni penchutunna 😭 Ma amma inka okka family ni kuda intloki ranivvadu. 😂

Still, somehow these three little potatoes have become my responsibility now Hope they grow up healthy and strong

Btw, perlu suggest cheyandi! 😂

Ma intlo unna dogs lo mom peru Kali, and 2 kids names are 6 & 7. 😭 So names should preferably match this chaotic naming system

u/Upset_Interest_1224 — 6 days ago

Reddit has some very polite creeps 😭😂

No “hey sexy”, no unsolicited pics, no weird demands. Bro came with a whole professionally written proposal boundaries, consent, communication, 18+ disclaimer, everything. 😭

Like sir… I appreciate the professionalism, but how did my Reddit profile become a job portal? 😂

The funny part? I didn’t even know what femdom meant, so I had to Google it first. 😭 Reddit really teaches you something new every day.

What was your weirdest but surprisingly polite dm you've received? Edit : Didn’t even accepted the request, posting this for fun

u/Upset_Interest_1224 — 10 days ago

Pour over or cappuccino ?

Sunday brunch sceans pour over , caramel cappuccino, french toast, Bombay masala sandwich and keema pav

u/Upset_Interest_1224 — 11 days ago

Story time baguntadi chadavandi 🥸

Last week oka family function ki ella obviously relatives vintha vintha questions adguthar (aunty lu main ga ) so alage oka doorapu chuttam ochindi nak ame Atha avtadi bagunara palakarimpulu aipoyaka em chesthunav amma ani adgindi btech aipoindi place ayya bangalore lo vellaledu (enduku vellaledo adi pedha story esari cheptha ) mba chesthu business chuskuntuna Atha ani cheppa anthe le amma ade correct eroju lo bangalore lanti pedha cities lo work chese ammayilaki pellilu avatle evarki nammakam undatle alanti aada pillalu mida annadi nak mandipoindi kani arvakudadu so challabadda tarvatha pelli epudu mari ani topic start chesi vala kodku gurinchi goppal cheppadam start chesindi ( mi andariki ame intension ardamipoindi ankuntuna) nen oh nice nice anna Last lo ekada Atha job anna hyderabad lo ani cheppindi ayyo antha pedha pedha cities lo job chese abbayilaki pilla ni evaru isthar Atha anna 😂 fhaaaa inka discussion penchakunda ice-cream tiskovali Atha bye ani cheppi ellipoya 🥸 hope she learned a lesson

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u/Upset_Interest_1224 — 12 days ago

Is It a Scam?

So, my laptop recently got repaired and they reinstalled the OS, but the original issues still aren't fixed. The microphone, camera, and even the USB ports don't work. They told me those issues couldn't be resolved, but I urgently need a working laptop for an online exam this Sunday. I didn't want to bother my friends (thanks to my mohamatam 😭), so I searched on Justdial for laptop rental services and contacted a 2 or 3 stores.

The first one said I'd have to pay a 15k refundable security deposit plus 2k rent for a month They claimed the 15k would be returned after I gave the laptop back. I decided to check another vendor instead. They said they don't require a deposit if they can verify that I live in my own house or else should deposite 15k. They asked for my address, live location, and even a relative's phone number for verification. I shared everything they requested. After that... nothing

I followed up after about 12 hours. I called again they said i should share current location so i did. They said they'd check and update. Four hours later, I called again, and this time they said they were "outside for work" and would update me soon they never called me again.

What does that even mean? If you're not interested or can't provide the service, just say so. People rely on these rentals for urgent situations, and wasting someone's time when they have an exam coming up is frustrating. I'm starting to wonder if the ₹15,000 deposit model is a scam. I haven't paid anything, so I'm not accusing anyone of fraud. But the whole experience felt like a huge red flag.The store I contacted is Sriveni Technologies Please do your own verification before sharing personal details or paying any security deposit.

Thankfully, the story has a happy ending. 😭 I finally gathered the courage to ask a friend, and the issue was solved in literally 5 minutes They happily lent me their laptop, so I'm all set for my exam now.

Moral of the story: Don't let introversion and hesitation make life harder than it has to be

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u/Upset_Interest_1224 — 13 days ago

What was the first movie that made you cry?

Na 4th or 5th class lo jarigina vishayam. School nunchi ragane normal ga fresh ayi homework chese routine Intlo evaru undevallu kaadu, amma work nunchi around 6 ki vacchedi. Kani aa roju time table em follow avvaledu Oka roju chill avdam ani TV on chesa Tittulu padthayani telusu, but still TV petta. Shin Chan leda Doraemon kakunda, Gemini Movies lo edo cinema undi ani chusthuna Mathrudevobhava. Starting lo chinna pillalu unnaru, family vibe baga nachindi. Heroine life antha bagupadipoindi anukunna time ki malli anni disturb aipoyayi. Pillalni adoption ki istunnappudu kuda naku pedda emotion raledu Kani last lo Chitra paata padadam start chestadi kada... anthe Enduku edusthunano kuda telidu, kani nonstop edusthunna 😭 Exactly appude amma intiki ochindi. TV chusinanduku tittalo, nenu edusthunna ani odarchalo ardham kaaka konchem confuse ayyindi 😂 Last ki TV off cheyinchi, tissues ichi, Homework chesko ani pampinchindi 🤧 Antak mundu amma gani, ammamma gani movie chusi edusthunte, Movie ki kuda edusthara? ani anedani. Kani ee movie tarvatha... I finally got it 🥲

Mee first movie enti? E cinema chusi first time genuine ga edcharu?

u/Upset_Interest_1224 — 15 days ago

Way too late to post, but here's the fit I wore for Brand New Day

simple black kurta paired with my Spider-Man phone case. Nothing fancy, just thought the phone case was a fun little detail 🕷️🖤

u/Upset_Interest_1224 — 15 days ago

Am I the only one who found this book overrated?

Never lie by Frida McFadden

Is it just me, or did anyone else find this book a bit boring? I could predict what was coming next for most of the story. I'd heard so much hype about it and went in with high expectations since it's often recommended as a must-read thriller, but it just didn't live up to them for me. Can you guys recommend some genuinely good psychological thrillers that are worth reading? I recently finished The Silent Patient and really enjoyed it, so I'm looking for books with a similar mind-bending, unpredictable vibe.I've already read And Then There Were None and Murder on the Orient Express, and I really enjoyed both. I'd also love more Agatha Christie recommendations (preferably with clever twists) or any other psychological thriller that genuinely surprised you. Thanks!

u/Upset_Interest_1224 — 15 days ago