F35, M33,1.5yrs of relationship, friendship of 14years. How do i bring up a dead bedroom when everything else is fine?
How do i bring up a dead bedroom when everything else is great and without making him feel pressured.
We have knowing each other for more than a decade and share a deep friendship. We started dating a year back. All these years he was constantly chasing me but I was with someone else. We were going at it almost every day for the first two months of dating, it was great. But now? We’re lucky if it happens once every 3 months. We still cuddle and sleep together every night, no issues there, but the physical intimacy has basically flatlined. Anyone else been through this? I have brought this up time and again but nothing has changed.
We live together, so I don’t know if that has to do anything with this. We plan to get married this year. Everything else is super great. His EQ is high and rare to see in men around.
How do I have a productive conversation with my partner about this without it turning into a fight or making him feel attacked?