23F, Mumbai | Looking for something real, posting for the first and last time.
I'm 23F, based in Mumbai, and I'm looking to meet someone with the intention of eventually building a genuine intentional, serious relationship.
Preference would be someone 24-28 in age, Hindu (Maharashtrian would be a plus), Mumbai based.
a little about me:
I'm an engineering student and pretty career-oriented. I'm ambitious, sometimes excessively so, and I care a lot about what I'm building for myself. I'm also quite outgoing once I'm comfortable with someone and I enjoy people who can hold an actual conversation, have their own sets of ambitious interests and who respect the grind.
As I am someone still building my career, I am open to supporting someone making theirs too. The considerate understanding that comes with knowing someone hasn't arrived yet but is working on it is crucial for me. Someone who has his own life and ambitions but also actually wants to make space for another person in it.
I'm also a bit of a contradiction — I can have very serious conversations about life and then spend 20 minutes arguing about which movie deserves to be in someone's top five.
Speaking of which, my current top 5 movies are:
- Interstellar
- He's Just Not That Into You
- Inception
- The Shawshank Redemption
- Love Aaj Kal
My music taste is probably equally chaotic:
- Afro house
- 2010s KK/Mithoon Bollywood songs
- R&B — Rihanna, Drake, Tory Lanez, etc
Food isn't really my personality, but I will choose a burger over pizza, peri-peri fries over cheesy fries, and spicy over sweet every single time.
I'd strongly prefer Mumbai or somewhere close enough that meeting isn't an elaborate logistical operation. I don't want to build a relationship entirely through a phone. I'd like the possibility of the ordinary stuff like coffee, walks, random plans, sitting somewhere for hours talking, discovering places together, and eventually becoming part of each other's actual lives.
something to clear up would be that I'm looking for something serious, and I want to take the physical side of things slowly.
I've had enough experiences where something starts as genuine conversation and gradually becomes primarily about attraction, sexual conversations and intimacy. I'm not interested in repeating that dynamic.
Being attracted to each other is obviously important. I'm just not interested in attraction being the entire foundation of the connection.
So if you're primarily looking for something casual, sexual, pictures, sexting, or a situationship, we're probably not compatible
A friend of mine questioned me that why am i planning a saree outfit for this Ganesh Chaturthi, implying if i am thinking of soft launching someone. Currently i am not even an inch towards it but if it all works out well maybe I do use the green saree to good use haha
If you're interested, tell me something about yourself beyond your age and height. What are you like? What do you do? What are you looking for?
Here goes a attempt to seeing if this sub actually works