r/JodiMilan

About me: 23F, corporate employee, preparing for government exams side by side, so life is pretty hectic. I need to study after work and my weekends are also occupied with study sessions, so realistically, I can't give anyone more than 1-2 hours a day and obviously if you're also working toh wouldn't be free all day na. I feel ki if I see myself getting married in the next few years, toh I should at least look for someone and see if something can be built slowly. I'm very very expressive and chalant person.

Looking for: Strict vegetarian, no caste bar (I'm Hindu General, if that matters), non-smoker, non-drinker.

Age: 24-26

Height: I'm 5'8 myself, toh expecting 5'11 atleast

Should be physically fit. It's fine if you're not muscular, but not too fat either. I don't work out but I'm fit. Should always be up for long walks. I can walk for hours, like 2-3 hours. I love long walks where I yap and you listen:)

Ready to make the relationship fun with cute little gestures and all that, etc etc. We can figure it out.

Also, should be chalant. Be expressive, put in effort, communicate, don't fill my mind with questions or confuse me with your feelings and actually show that you care.

And most importantly, be loyal and honest. Tell me everything truly about your past if you've had any past relationships.

I know I should probably explore dating apps first and then try out places like reddit, but I just felt like posting it here, so doing it.

Any fitness freak like me with good height up for chat ? Just Dm with your details .Tbh I'm bored af. Not looking for anything serious.

So I lurk here sometimes—okay, most of the time —because why not? 😭 And honestly, this sub manages to baffle and motivate me at the same time. Like, why the hell are people earning the equivalent of my entire inheritance in a single year and still coming here looking for a match?? Every time I see some of these salaries, I have a mini existential crisis and then immediately feel motivated to study harder. 💀

I'm 23F, based in Mumbai, and I'm looking to meet someone with the intention of eventually building a genuine intentional, serious relationship.

Preference would be someone 24-28 in age, Hindu (Maharashtrian would be a plus), Mumbai based.

a little about me:

I'm an engineering student and pretty career-oriented. I'm ambitious, sometimes excessively so, and I care a lot about what I'm building for myself. I'm also quite outgoing once I'm comfortable with someone and I enjoy people who can hold an actual conversation, have their own sets of ambitious interests and who respect the grind.
As I am someone still building my career, I am open to supporting someone making theirs too. The considerate understanding that comes with knowing someone hasn't arrived yet but is working on it is crucial for me. Someone who has his own life and ambitions but also actually wants to make space for another person in it.

I'm also a bit of a contradiction — I can have very serious conversations about life and then spend 20 minutes arguing about which movie deserves to be in someone's top five.

Speaking of which, my current top 5 movies are:

1. Interstellar
2. He's Just Not That Into You
3. Inception
4. The Shawshank Redemption
5. Love Aaj Kal

My music taste is probably equally chaotic:

1. Afro house
2. 2010s KK/Mithoon Bollywood songs
3. R&B — Rihanna, Drake, Tory Lanez, etc

Food isn't really my personality, but I will choose a burger over pizza, peri-peri fries over cheesy fries, and spicy over sweet every single time.

I'd strongly prefer Mumbai or somewhere close enough that meeting isn't an elaborate logistical operation. I don't want to build a relationship entirely through a phone. I'd like the possibility of the ordinary stuff like coffee, walks, random plans, sitting somewhere for hours talking, discovering places together, and eventually becoming part of each other's actual lives.

something to clear up would be that I'm looking for something serious, and I want to take the physical side of things slowly.

I've had enough experiences where something starts as genuine conversation and gradually becomes primarily about attraction, sexual conversations and intimacy. I'm not interested in repeating that dynamic.

Being attracted to each other is obviously important. I'm just not interested in attraction being the entire foundation of the connection.

So if you're primarily looking for something casual, sexual, pictures, sexting, or a situationship, we're probably not compatible

A friend of mine questioned me that why am i planning a saree outfit for this Ganesh Chaturthi, implying if i am thinking of soft launching someone. Currently i am not even an inch towards it but if it all works out well maybe I do use the green saree to good use haha

If you're interested, tell me something about yourself beyond your age and height. What are you like? What do you do? What are you looking for?

Here goes a attempt to seeing if this sub actually works

Hey everyone! I’m a female, I don’t think age matters that much. I believe connections matter more—whether we genuinely click and our vibes match. For reference, I’m definitely not that old! 😄

I’m a doctor, a very lively and adventurous person, and I genuinely believe in meaningful relationships and connections.

Physically, I’m quite petite—exactly 5.1 feet—and people often describe me as cute and kind of good-looking. I’m a little squishy, the kind of person you’d probably want to cuddle with. 😄

HINDU ( BRAMHIN , doesn't matter tho), non vegetarian 🫢( yeah u can judge me), non smoker, non drinker ( concious decision - perks of being a doctor)

Personality-wise, I’m honestly a bit like a kid. Even though I’ve grown up, I still have that childlike side to me, and I believe you should never let that inner child die. I feel like you should always keep a little bit of that innocence, playfulness, and craziness alive. But when a serious situation demands maturity, I know exactly when to switch gears and behave responsibly. Definitely not an insecure one!!

I’m the kind of girl you can take out to chill, travel, explore new places, have fun with, or just spend a lazy evening with. At the same time, I’m also very family-oriented and perfectly comfortable staying at home and enjoying quality time together. Basically, I can be both—the fun, carefree girl and the mature, responsible one when the situation calls for it. ❤️

I’m also open to long-distance relationships. I don’t believe distance is necessarily a problem if two people genuinely want to make things work. If the connection is real and both people are willing to put in the effort, I’m completely open to making it work.

I’m also open to moving or relocating in the future. I’m currently figuring out my own plans and possibilities, and I would definitely be interested in pursuing opportunities outside India as well. So, if life takes me somewhere else, I’m open to that too. I’d love to explore new places, experience a different environment, and build a life wherever it makes sense.

I’m a very ambitious person, and I want to build a financially comfortable and successful life. At the same time, I also want a family. I genuinely believe you can have both—build your career, achieve your ambitions, make money, and still have a happy family life if both people want to make it work.

That’s the kind of life I want, and I’d want my partner to respect and support that. I’d also love someone who is ambitious, has their own goals, and wants to build a comfortable life together.

And even if you’re not into working out or you don’t like badminton, that’s completely fine! We can still be friends—there’s absolutely no problem with that. 😄

In fact, I genuinely believe I’m a really good friend. One of the biggest compliments I’ve received from people is that I’m a very good friend. I’m the kind of person who genuinely shows up for the people I care about. If there’s something a friend needs and I can do it, I’ll do it. I think that’s one of the qualities I’m most proud of.

And honestly, I don’t really need external validation. I know who I am, I know that I’m a good person, and I know that I can be a really good friend. That’s enough for me.

I believe in genuine relationships—whether it’s friendship, a romantic relationship, or anything in between. The connection has to be genuine, and most importantly, the intentions have to be genuine.

So please, if you’re not genuinely interested, don’t play games or waste your time or mine. I’m a pretty intelligent and perceptive person, and I can usually see through people and their intentions.

I’ve never cheated on anyone, and I don’t believe in cheating. I also don’t keep people around me who give me that kind of vibe.

So if you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM me. And if you’re not, that’s completely okay—no hard feelings. Just be honest and move on. 😊

Thought I’d give this a shot haha!

F25, non-vegetarian, 5’3, Sindhi, working in marketing for an MNC, currently living in Blr (though I work remote so I don’t mind making the move if needed.)

I’m ideally looking for a North Indian, Punjabi/Sindhi/Hindu (since I believe cultural alignment does play a major role down the line), to be non-vegetarian, someone who likes occasional drinking, is into travelling and would love to plan trips once in a quarter maybe? :), someone who knows how to balance work-life, social circles, families, and a relationship very well (because I do and I expect the same!), a good communicator (I absolutely can’t deal with one word replies, sorry), and someone who loves to take the initiative, is responsible, financially settled, and is definitely older than me lol.

My preferred age range is 26-30. Preferred height range: 5’10 or taller. Based in Bangalore would be the best but I’m okay to wing the location for the right one.

Please, strictly, no casual relationship seekers. I would love to date seriously and see where it goes in the future.

If you’re someone who knows how to be a boyfriend and won’t make me the guy in this relationship, let’s talk! 🌟

I wanted some bollywood love story, but that is nearly impossible so I’ll try reddit.

I come from Maharashtrian Family. Pursuing Architecture (final year). I don’t drink or smoke never did. 5ft in height, which is not short just cute. Fortunate enough to grow up from well to do family, so I’ve been pampered too much. Attached to my family a-lot I barely have any friends. My interests: sports, trekking, dance, watch shows/movies, gaming, fashion. A night owl can barely wakeup in the morning but I’ll always be ready for any physical activity. Travelled many countries have a will to explore them all. And I am Absolutely talkative, funny and overthinker. I deeply care about my closed ones and I can never even think of betraying them.

If you are 23/24M, Maharashtrian, from Mumbai or Pune, comes from comfortable and loving family, funny, cute, sporty, can play games and watch movies with me, loyal, smart and caring.

My overprotective parents would love to meet you.

And I would love to try for a genuine connection give it few years and hopefully it leads to marriage. I don’t expect everything to be perfect really but hoping to find someone who will stay with me till the end.

Note: Little introduction when you approach me will be appreciated.

Hi. So, as I mentioned, I’m currently unemployed and, for the time being, I drive for Rapido. I come from a humble background, and life has thrown a few curveballs my way. I’ve had my share of ups and downs, and I’m still figuring things out, one step at a time.I did complete my graduation though.

For the longest time, I wasn’t really sure about putting myself out there or looking for a partner. I felt like I should first become financially stable, have everything figured out, and then think about relationships.

But life doesn’t always work that way.

So, here I am, giving it a shot. I may find someone, I may not. I might meet someone wonderful, or this post might disappear into the Reddit void. Either way, I’d rather try than wonder what could have happened.

I’m from Hyderabad. I’m ambivert by nature. 31 M , Height 6’1 ft. I’m working towards building something meaningful for myself. I do have a graduation degree and a few other things going on, which I’ll probably talk about later. For now, I’d rather not turn this into a résumé.

A little about me outside of all that: I read quite a bit, both fiction and non-fiction. I enjoy long walks, meditation, movies, and having unnecessarily long conversations about movies after watching them.

I like conversations that actually go somewhere, whether it’s about life, books, films, ideas, or just something completely random.I do write as well.

That’s me, honestly. No particularly polished version of myself, no pretending that I have everything figured out. Just where I am right now, and where I’m trying to get to.

As for you, I’m not looking for someone with a perfect life or a perfectly curated profile. I’d just like to know you, have a genuine conversation, and see where it goes.

So, if any of this resonates with you, say hi. Let’s talk.

Bored af, Anyone up ?

So girls is this just me or have you also been meeting the same kind of guys who just dont know how to lead a conversation!
Like they literally have nothing to talk about
No interesting questions
No curiosity
No idea how to actually build a conversation or make it stimulating
What happened to people 😭
All they have is
How are you?
What do you do?
Where are you from?
And thats it
They just cant go beyond the basic introductory stuff
Like bro I already answered what I do 😭 what else do you have to say
You ask them something and they give you the most dry answer ever and then you have to carry the whole conversation yourself
Is it just me or are you girls experiencing the same thing?

I’m 23, living in Bangalore, and working as a graphic designer. In reality, that just means I spend way too much time obsessing over fonts, silently critiquing restaurant menus, and running on iced coffee. Outside of work, I’m usually hunting down quiet coffee spots, checking out live music, putting together overly specific playlists, or getting way too competitive over board games.

A quick look at me:

Creative and driven on weekdays, low-key homebody on the weekends.

Into visual art, psychology podcasts, checking out new microbreweries, and quick street food runs.

I value good humor, genuine effort, and open communication.

What I’m hoping to find:

A guy around 23 to 26 based in the city who is grounded, curious, and genuinely passionate about what he does.

Someone who can trade playful banter, hold an easy conversation, and not take life too seriously.

Down for simple first dates like grabbing a brew in Indiranagar, a slow morning walk through Cubbon Park, or checking out a good local spot for food.

If that sounds like your vibe, shoot me a DM with a quick intro, your favorite food spot in town, and the song you currently have on repeat.

Hey everyone! 🌸
23F here, originally from Bhubaneswar, Odisha, proudly Odia, and currently working and living in Hyderabad.

I’m someone who is pretty easy-going, chill, straightforward, and fun to be around. I enjoy good conversations, random plans, laughing over silly things, and just having a comfortable connection with someone. I’m not looking for anything overly complicated — I’d genuinely like to meet someone with whom things can naturally grow into something meaningful.

I’m here hoping to find a guy who is genuine, understanding, loyal, emotionally mature, and clear about what he wants. Someone who believes in communication, consistency, mutual respect, and actually making an effort when it comes to a relationship.

I’m specifically looking for someone who is serious about a long-term relationship. I’m not really interested in casual dating, situationships, or something that starts with “let’s see where it goes” without any intention behind it. I believe the best relationships start with two people being honest about what they’re looking for and then taking the time to know each other properly.

A few things about what I’m looking for:
• Age: preferably 23–25
• Someone who is fun, cute, kind, and easy-going
• Height: ideally around 5'10" or below
• Emotionally available and capable of communicating properly
• Loyal and respectful
• Has a good sense of humour and doesn’t take everything too seriously
• Most importantly, someone who is genuinely interested in building a stable, committed relationship

I’d preferably like to connect with someone who is Odia or from North India. And if you’re already in Hyderabad, that’s definitely a huge brownie point because meeting up and getting to know each other becomes much easier. 😄

I’m not expecting anyone to be perfect. I’m just looking for someone who is genuine, consistent, respectful, and willing to put in the same effort that they expect from the other person.

If you think we might vibe, feel free to DM me. We can start with a simple conversation, get to know each other, and see if there’s a genuine connection. No pressure, no expectations — just two people seeing if they’re on the same wavelength. :)

And please, if you’re DMing, be clear about your intentions and a little about yourself. I’d much rather have a genuine conversation than a simple “hey” 😅

Let’s see if Reddit can actually work its magic this time. 🙈❤️