[F4M] 23 | Bengaluru Looking for someone to date

I’m 23, living in Bangalore, and working as a graphic designer. In reality, that just means I spend way too much time obsessing over fonts, silently critiquing restaurant menus, and running on iced coffee. Outside of work, I’m usually hunting down quiet coffee spots, checking out live music, putting together overly specific playlists, or getting way too competitive over board games.

A quick look at me:

Creative and driven on weekdays, low-key homebody on the weekends.

Into visual art, psychology podcasts, checking out new microbreweries, and quick street food runs.

I value good humor, genuine effort, and open communication.

What I’m hoping to find:

A guy around 23 to 26 based in the city who is grounded, curious, and genuinely passionate about what he does.

Someone who can trade playful banter, hold an easy conversation, and not take life too seriously.

Down for simple first dates like grabbing a brew in Indiranagar, a slow morning walk through Cubbon Park, or checking out a good local spot for food.

If that sounds like your vibe, shoot me a DM with a quick intro, your favorite food spot in town, and the song you currently have on repeat.

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u/HovercraftAlarmed266 — 2 days ago
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[M4F] 23 - Motion Designer looking for a genuine connection in Bangalore

Hey! 👋 I'm a 23-year-old Motion Designer and Video Editor living right here in Bangalore. I'm 5'7", spending most of my days nudging keyframes frame-by-frame, obsessing over seamless transitions, and staring at timeline markers until my eyes blur.

Why Reddit? Because my real personality doesn't fit into three rigid dating app prompts and a handful of photos. Dating app fatigue is real, and I’d much rather lay out the good, the chaotic, and the quirks right here so we can see if our wavelengths actually match before jumping into small talk. A Few Things About Me

Languages: Telugu, Kannada, and English.

Habits: Non-smoker, drink only occasionally in social settings, and do home workouts to stay active.

Music rotation: A solid mix of Kannada, Telugu, and English tracks while editing. Killers from the Northside stays on heavy rotation.

Screen time: I barely watch sports or mainstream movies, but I watch an absurd amount of animation and cartoon classics. Oggy and the Cockroaches, Mr. Bean, and Ninja Hattori are timeless. 🐱

Food truth: Not a massive foodie, but give me almost any egg dish and I'm happy. Also, authentic Chintapandu Pulihora is my absolute weakness zero self-control. 🤤

Weekends: Usually a mix of working on creative side projects, resting, or stepping away from screens for random outings across the city with friends.

The Perks & The Flaws Major Perk: I will edit all your aesthetic travel clips and videos with buttery-smooth 60fps transitions and cinematic color grading. 🎥 Personal Green Flags: Emotionally intelligent, good with finances, grounded, and someone who values mutual respect and genuine effort.

The Flaws / Lore: I overthink minor scenarios into parallel universes. 🧠 I have strong self-respect, and sometimes my mouth moves faster than my brain filter (working on it, I promise).

A Deep Dark Bangalore Secret: I have traveled on a BMTC bus without a ticket once. Please don't report me to the conductor. 💀🚌

What I’m Looking For A girl based in Bangalore looking for a long-term connection, but completely open to starting as friends first, building a real vibe, and letting things grow naturally without artificial pressure. Someone who values honesty, emotional maturity, open communication, and isn't afraid to share her own weird quirks.

Drop me a message with: Tell me a bit about yourself instead of just a dry "Hi" your favorite comfort food, a childhood cartoon you still miss, or your own chaotic Bangalore confession. Let's see if we click!

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u/HovercraftAlarmed266 — 4 days ago

[M 4 F] 23 [Bangalore] - Motion designer, looking for genuine

23, 5'7", working full-time in motion design and video editing here in Bangalore.

Completely burned out on swipe culture and looking for something real. In my free time, I’m usually tracking down good food/coffee, catching great cinema, or heading outdoors for weekend escapes. Grounded, easygoing, and a good listener.

Looking for: A genuine girl who values good conversation over small talk. No pressure let’s just get to know each other, see if the vibe matches, and let things flow naturally from there.

Drop a message with your favorite comfort food spot in town or what you're currently watching!

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u/HovercraftAlarmed266 — 4 days ago