Basically from TN, never married. Working as a Product Designer in bellandur. Looking for genuine connections in and around Bellandur. Im so done with dating apps as people started treating it as a hookup app these days. Im 5’7. So the guy could be preferably 5’7 or taller. I don’t mind men who are a few years younger to me. I love hunting midnight chai spots and have 2 kittens.
Hey miss!
I'm 22, new to the city, and currently my social circle consists of:
My PG walls
The chai uncle downstairs
Google Maps (the only one who never leaves me)
So... here I am.
Looking for a partner in crime someone who's up for random café hopping, late night walks, trying questionable food places with 4.9★ ratings and 12 reviews, laughing at absolutely stupid jokes, and making this huge city feel a little smaller.
A few things about me:
22M.
Can hold conversations longer than my phone battery.
Will happily lose an argument if you're buying coffee.
Believes every bad day can be fixed with good food.
Replies faster than Blinkit on most days.
Low drama, high sarcasm.
Looking for someone who's kind, has a sense of humor, and is okay with spontaneous "Let's just go somewhere" plans.
Worst case? I discover some amazing places and make a new friend.
Best case? Bangalore finally starts feeling like home.
If you smiled while reading this, my DMs are open. If not at least tell me where I can find the best momos in the city. 🤝
Bored as hell.
This might be the lamest try but let’s see.
I’m 20F from Arunachal, I’m looking for something longterm and serious.
I don’t have a religion but i’m not necessarily an atheist.
I prefer vegetarian food.
I cannot stand hot weather. I don’t like staying in AC.
So if you are from a hot region..🙂
I’m short, 5’1 and moderately fair and good looking.
What I’m looking for:
A man. 25+ cause i believe in age gap helping relationships. How? Idk
I don’t really care about your looks. I’m more into personality i swear and i mean it genuinely. I…have proof.
But then again if you are good looking, it doesn’t mean i don’t want you at all. Obv you can approach if the next traits sound familiar to you.
• I want to marry early.
• I want us to stay in a place where we get unadulterated food and water
• I want to be a housewife. But i will have my organic fruits business, so that we have back up in case you go bankrupt.
• I don’t care if you are short, not so good looking anything. BUT you must be healthy, or willing to turn healthy (no laziness) AND YOU MUST BE SMART.
I don’t want to settle with an Average thinking guy. I’d say i’m a lil more than average but still not there. I’m working on it but you the man of the house must be a smart guy so i can rely on you. Enough that i can trust you even if you are broke and trying to get somewhere right now.
• this point is a deal breaker if you don’t possess and something absolutely non negotiable, emotional intelligence.
I don’t care how angry you get, no verbal abuse, no slangs, no avoidant rule.
We sit we talk we figure out while being nice to each other.
I like South Indian men who look manly but obviously there’s so such specification. You can dm me if you match these. Just read the whole post.
Red flags about me:
•Very sensitive regarding you
•Obsessive in nature for my man.
• I want you to be loving towards me I shouldn’t have to ask you to call me or give me 30 mins of your time even if you are dead busy.
Trust me, they sound like oh not really bad but when you are living it, it feels the opposite I believe but then i can’t help it. Least i can do is give a heads up :)
I’m half Bangalore and half Nashik . I’m a foodie and I also love cooking( I can impress you with it 😉). I’m 5’9 in terms of height, hit the gym and have a decent physique. I am quite fairly skinned but tanning makes me look like an Oreo if I remove my shirt 🥲.
Speaking more about myself I’m energetic and memories ban jayegi type bakchod and I love chaos 😂.
I am a good listener and will actually love to hear you out everyday( fav line ‘aaj pata hai kya hua’).
Pros about me:
Cons:
I have made most of my things clear if any left definitely you can ask me. I’m open minded and understanding. Last but not least single son and yeah from a well to do background.
Hoping for some genuine responses 🤞
I hear apps like Hinge are too harsh on men. Not very outgoing as it is (don't drink/smoke, vegetarian). Any way to meet people looking for long-term (marriage) ..? (except Matrimony apps)
Don't have kids.
Work in big-tech.
Hey, I recently moved to Bangalore and thought I’d try my luck here.
I’m 27, 166 cms tall, originally from South India, and work in the corporate. I’d describe myself as empathetic, thoughtful, emotionally aware, and someone who genuinely enjoys getting to know people.
A little more about me: I’m a two-time cancer survivor and have a mild locomotor disability that leaves me with a slight limp. It doesn’t affect my independence or stop me from doing the things I enjoy, but I’d rather be upfront about it from the beginning.
I’m not posting here with a fixed agenda or a checklist. I’d simply like to meet someone interesting, have a conversation, maybe meet up if we get along, and see where things go naturally.
I understand that attraction is an important part of dating, so I’m happy to exchange pictures early on if we’d both be more comfortable with that. Age isn’t a major factor for me!
One reason I’m posting here instead of approaching people in person is that putting yourself out there can be intimidating, and perhaps a little more so when you’re visibly different. Reddit feels like a good place to start a conversation without the pressure. If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message.
My second try as my last post got taken down :p
TL;DR: 27M, recently moved to Bangalore, two-time cancer survivor with a mild locomotor disability, looking to meet someone interesting, exchange pictures if we’re both comfortable, grab a coffee or hang out, and see where things go naturally.
Adulting is weird.
I somehow have two jobs, manage to hit the gym, go for runs, pay my bills, and still don’t have that one friend who’ll text, “Beer? Coffee? Walk? I’m outside.”
So… here I am.
About me:
25M
Two jobs (I apparently enjoy being busy).
Gym, running, cafés, random drives, trying new food.
Occasionally smoke, occasionally make terrible jokes.
I’ve been told I’m good-looking, but I’ll let Reddit be the judge of that. 😭
I’m looking for people who don’t need a three-week Google Calendar invite to grab coffee or just wander around Koramangala.
No networking. No MLM. No crypto pitches. No “let’s build a startup together.”
Just looking for genuinely fun people with good vibes. If we click, great. If not, at least we got a coffee and a story out of it.
Drop a comment or DM if you’re around. Bonus points if your reply isn’t just “hmu.”
Wanted to know from girls, do you like to get a compliment on your dressing sense? .. from someone whom you don't know or don't have friendship with but do notice or see each other regularly like nearby your stay or work place.
35F here for a M
I recently moved to Bangalore and I am interested in getting into something that has the potential for the long term. Not looking for flings and hook ups.
About me: I work in education. I’m financially independent.
I enjoy good conversations and like people who have the ability to talk about something intelligently. Not the reel based gyan.
I’m 5’3. I dress comfortable.
I’m loyal.
I take time getting to know people.
I love tea.
I’m not conventional and I hate toying the line.
Occasional smoker and drinker.
What am I looking for: Men who are independent thinkers. Do not cling to family or traditions.
Political position : no bjp supporters
Display the ability to think critically on issues
I should add that I’m located in the peripheral part of Bangalore so everyday meet ups or frequent meet ups will be a challenge.
If any of this makes sense to you, we can chat and see.
NOTE: I am not impersonating anyone. Losers and idiots stay away from this post.
Why is it that a person who talks or wants genuine relationship and love gets absolutely no response but as soon as you mention hookups or ONS or something similar people are ready for that?
I mean what’s wrong with people these days?
M25
Working as software engineer. Kind of nerd
Mostly into sports and movies
Hey there, 26M from Bangalore looking for short/long term relationship ✨
💪🏽Gym rat who voluntarily runs for fun
🍳 Can cook for you ;)
🎤 Will absolutely drag you to a karaoke night
🐶Pet enthusiast (I have kittensss)
🌃 Equally happy at an Afro House/Bolly Tech night or a quiet late night chai walk/long bike ride/ice cream.
Bonus points if you:
> love shopping
> Can yap for hours
> Love spontaneous plans
> Like receiving flowers
> Can roast me
> Emotionally mature.
If you vibe with this then ping me✨✨
My friends are getting suspicious of how many “date worthy” places I keep dragging them lmao.
I’d rather take my woman instead. 🫶🏼🫶🏼
Adulting is weird.
I somehow have two jobs, manage to hit the gym, go for runs, pay my bills, and still don’t have that one friend who’ll text, “Beer? Coffee? Walk? I’m outside.”
So… here I am.
About me:
25M
Two jobs (I apparently enjoy being busy).
Gym, running, cafés, random drives, trying new food.
Occasionally smoke, occasionally make terrible jokes.
I’ve been told I’m good-looking, but I’ll let Reddit be the judge of that. 😭
I’m looking for people who don’t need a three-week Google Calendar invite to grab coffee or just wander around Koramangala.
No networking. No MLM. No crypto pitches. No “let’s build a startup together.”
Just looking for genuinely fun people with good vibes. If we click, great. If not, at least we got a coffee and a story out of it.
Drop a comment or DM if you’re around. Bonus points if your reply isn’t just “hmu.”
Hi, im ava, im 22 i have just started legally medically transitioning again (although idk how the new bill changes might impact this very soon)
HRT, hair removal, bloodwork, doctor's visits, and a shit ton of other feminizing procedures, take a huge toll on my wallet, and my mental health.
I'm currently just a student, and transitioning without my parents or my friends knowledge, and i keep very little facial hair on to keep looking manly, however not being able to being present in a feminine way, always takes a toll on my mental health. every week that i am away from parents i shave off every bit off body and facial hair that i have, throw on a girly dress and fuck around, and thats the only relief i get.
Now i'm finally looking for someone who can support my mental health and help me out financially to be the dream girl that i want to be. I am open to dating anyone, curious, respectful, and genuine person. But sexwork has become a part of my life to support my HRT and feminization, I would like to leave all that behind and just be exclusive with one person, and maybe just maybe explore with a threesome once in a while.
please be respectful with ur dms.
and dw, i am trying to get a job myself so that i can be completely independent someday, but till then i need someone to help me build myself from ground up
Hi, I’m a girl in finance, with an artsy side. I love going to new events happening in the city, picking up new hobbies and of course shopping. Looking for a long term relationship. I’m into men who want to give princess treatment and let me relax.
You took a piece of my heart with you, Ananya. I’m glad we stopped by to shake hands and exchange names and it’s a shame that I don’t live in the country, but if I could have it any other way, I’d do everything within my power to give us a shot.
If you happen to read this, know that you’re going to live rent free in my head for a long time cuz those stealthy smiles aren’t leaving my grey matter anytime soon.
If you’re reading this and you’re not Ananya, please do share it with an Ananya you may know who travelled this morning (2/7 6am) in the said route. High chance it’s her! 🫡
You deserve the best. 🫰🏼 Leaving this out in the ether hoping it finds its way to you!
Hi guys, I am new to Bangalore, working at corporate, I wanted to know how in Bangalore can I ask girl for coffee. I have few girls in my office, gym and near my stay, but none of them are directly in contact with me, like none in my office work team. Would like to know how can I ask any of 'em for a coffee to know them better or for a friendship.
Are Bangalore girls open and kind to such people who ask them out like this, or are they like just freak out or overreact or disrespect them.