u/Dizzy_Selection_4987

I'll go first. I start at 8 am and it goes till 11pm. It would have been fine if I was working on one thing. But now 4 parallel and each double the pace. Don't even have any brains to write this point, completely spent. Totally spent by the end of the day and I cry myself to sleep. It's not that bad though, I'm able to squeez in time for gym and walking every other day, but yeah eyes are burning at night and I'm wondering what i'm even doing with life. I'm 34 now. Life is as dull as it comes. Just doom scrolling on apps and making small talks with strangers for kicks.

I've been to many dates in bangalore, so much so I have lost count. It's kinda more or less the same thing. I don't think it's bad algo, nor it's the kinda of people around you. It's not even compatibility. People are people.

Only conclusion I have arrived at is that intentional dating will never lead to anything. You are looking for something, you get more or less of that, then you waste your time and then move to another since you were already looking and it's easy to keep looking.

As for me, I'm just your regular IT employee. I go to many workshops, events, seminars, on trips, I'm on all apps and I manage few dates here and there. Other than that, I'm working all day all night, nothing else to it. It's quite taxing and burn out happens once a month or so.

So hit me up if you are up for talks

Is it just me or something about my profile.
Rare though matches are either I'm getting -

A - Jobless conservatives - superficial AF, basic, bad IQ/EQ

B - Has job but liberal - typically working in low paying jobs like NGOs - extreme liberal, feminist, far left political, social justice warriors, impossible to tolerate.

While I'm sure both A and B are absolutely lovely people, I can't help it but I simply can't see anything long term with them.

I don't know man, wasted away 6 months since I moved here. i'm 34 now.