u/Adventurous_Knee_225

need comparison between these two paddles if anyone has tried both.

Got rejected(ghosted) online by a lady a few months ago so I kept distance from her, didn’t initiate conversation with her and no eye-contact for sometime, unfollowed her and removed myself from her followers. But she was being nice whenever we had to face each other in person. So, I didn’t want to be rude and so I had to be nice and polite to her.

Now, we have small talk now and then, I never initiate the small talk, it’s always her, but conversation doesn’t get deep, I want to get to know her, but I don’t get enough time with her, since she’s popular amongst other people so she is always occupied by other people.

One thing I noticed is that even when we are at the same place, I always catch her looking at me, so I don’t know if she is keeping me around for attention and validation or does she actually want to hang out one on one, how can I figure that out?

I don’t wanna ask her out in person since she has already rejected me. So should I let her make the move?