So I just found out from my close friend that my roommate that I have been close friends with for almost 2 years has been talking shit about me? Not too sure the specifics of what was said, but it falls along the lines of “the way you act and living with you”, is what I was told from another one of my closer friends who heard it from other people.
The thing is me and my roommate both work at the same place, and she has been complaining to our other coworkers about this. The funnier thing is I am the only one who cleans our whole apartment every time, never once have I seen this girl wipe our counters, sweep and mop our floors, take out the trash without being told to, or do the dishes. I do all this every single time without a complaint, and I spend mostly all my time in my bedroom. The only thing I struggle with is taking my clothes out the dryer when they are done.
I understand I may not be the perfect person to live with or I’m not really fun to hangout with anymore (side note: I am 22 years old and don’t really enjoy drinking or going to bars at all), but it’s the fact she’s venting frustrations about me to other random people we work with, and the fact I’m hearing it from another one of my close friends. It irks me that I have heard nothing about this until now, and she wants me to move into a house with her after our lease is up at our apartment. I can’t comprehend that, if living with me is so bad to the point that you need to complain to 6 other people we work with, why do you want me to live in a house with you.
She also is the one who wanted to move in with me to my apartment in the first place. I do nothing but try to be a good friend and support her, but at this point in my life I have no energy or time to deal with situations like these. Any questions or feedback would be nice. I haven’t talked to her yet about this, I was thinking I would talk to the people she talked to in order to get a better idea of what was said. I completely understand that living with someone isn’t always going to be rainbows and sunshine 24/7, but why are you venting your frustrations out to these random NPC’s at work, and not expect it to loop back around to me.