AITA for ghosting my mom
Okay back story so my mom had me (26 F) when she was 18. She left me at 9 momths to go back to her home state & she says she did that so she can finish school (but she literally never finisjed school not even GED) and my dad raised me - also wasnt the best living situation but thats besides the point. throught my childhood i would visit her every summer until i was about 10-12 then she was kind of no where to be found. she blames my dad and says he was bitter but idk. so fast forward im 17 and i move to my moms home state due to issues with my dad - when i moved there my mom tried to play the mom role which i kind of didnt take seriously at all and basically told me that if i date my bf (who is my brother childhood bestfriend & now my husband) that i wasnt allowed to stay with her so i went to move with another family member and shortly moved in with my bf at the time. once i lived w my bf our relationship was somewhat back to normal but still strained. after 2 years my bf proposed and she did not want me to marry him so we stopped speaking and she did not come to my wedding. (it was at the court house but still upset me) fast forward another 2 years im pregnant when we tell her she seems to be happy over the moon she said she was gunna go to all my dr appointments and only went to one lol. then about a month later she decided to spontaneously quit her job and move states which also hurt my feelings because i was pregnant and i really yearned for a regular mom and daughter relationship. we spoke everyday when she was in the other state the closes to a normal mother daughter relationship i could get. eventually my husband and i had our daughter and moved states she followed after about 2 years but moved to a not so good neighborhood so i dont really like to go there. we did still speak everyday otp but barely see eachother. as my daughter got older she tried to tell me.l how to parent my daughter and would talk down on my husbad. she would only call whem she needs rides or something and when i needed her help to babysit or anything she was no where to be found so i just stopped answering. so she kind of confronted me as to why im not speaking to her and blaming my husband. when i told her eveything above and how it made me feel her response was "Whatever have a blessed day - Kiss my granddaughter for me" i ist left it at that and since then shes been blowing up my phone and texting things like " so now you wanna hold a grudge" and how she wants to see her granddaughter but never really checked on her before. So AITA for "ghosting" my mom