Help. University tuition
Firstly I love and adore my son. With every single part of my being. My 2 daughters from another father I never saved tuition money for. They were promised money by their paternal grandmother. I saved for my son since his birth. His dad nothing. We were together 17 years till he cheated and he was a very abusive alcoholic. I have heath issues and need help with mowing the lawn. Shoveling the snow. Maybe fixing a few things. So my son moved to his dad’s place because he doesn’t want any part of helping me. His dad was the worst at this too. I’m now suffering a bacterial infection and very sick. I can’t get this kid to help me with anything. He’s so rude to me.
My toilet is plugged because I flushed something by accident. I asked if he could give me a hand. He told me to hire a plumber. I’ve given this kid anything and everything he ever wanted.
I want to give him a small portion of his money for this year and keep most of it. I need to get repairs on my house. I want to sell it. I can’t get cooperation from my kids or anyone. I want to use it to be able to sell and move. I can always use money from the sale to help in the future. Now this is the home I raised my entire family in.
I also need to catch up on bills. My x left me responsible for loans in our names. He refuses to help pay. I’m struggling. He has a great job. But doesn’t care.
Our children this generation are way to entitled and selfish. Don’t care about their mothers. Or family. Do i have an obligation to give him this money when my other 2 didn’t get anything?
Also the grandmother ended up not giving any money. So my daughters had to get loans.