fa's with a trauma bond please help !
my fa ex-girlfriend broke up with me six months ago, even though everything between us seemed genuinely good and healthy. There was no reason for the breakup — in fact, before ending things, she was the one talking about marriage and our future together.
But after we separated, she unfortunately tried to go back to her toxic relationship and trauma bond with her ex. From what I understand, the other person probably did not accept her back. Since the breakup, for the past six months, she has continued to romanticize that traumatic relationship, and honestly, I still cannot understand it.
The guy borrowed money and never paid it back, insulted her, cursed at her, and treated her badly — yet she still idealizes him.
I would really appreciate hearing opinions or experiences from people who have gone through something similar.