Conflicted feelings
Long story short, I was molested by my adoptive paternal grand father when I was about 12.Just had a long talk with my MATERNAL grandmother about it, I am now 44. I told when it happened but what only a few people know not including her or my parents is that my adoptive brother used to SA me and have me perform sexual acts on him when I was 12 ALSO. Now I can’t sleep and wonder if I should tell my granny that her cherished grandson that she’s so proud of was a creep too. Speaking about my grandfather she wished I would have told her and she said she believed that happened immediately and would have took me when my adoptive parents left me for dead in a group home had she know their intentions and somehow was able to dissolve my adoption. She said I can talk to her about anything. I just don’t know if I should say anything about that.