Obese people, do you feel patronized by positive comments?
I see this morbidly obese guy walk into our gym all the time and Idk who he is but I genuinely really respect his drive and dedication. He is black and 95% of my gym is white people who only talk to other white people and my town has a bit of a racism problem, no one ever talks to him for that probably because he’s different.
If he ever falls out of his good habit and end up back in his eating addiction I feel like I’ll be filled with regret. “Why didn’t I try to befriend him” or “maybe if he knew some people believe in him he wouldn’t give up so easily”.
But I also don’t want to come off as some morally virtuous fit dude that’s tryna give compliments to make myself feel better. Have there been times at the gym where someone’s positive comments really kept you going? Or have there been times when people tell you how awesome you are in it feels insincere and patronizing.