Resistant yet intrested in kink (f23) (m32)
(TLDR: my bf new to kink but am scared to introduce it to him)
My bf and i have been together for two months known each other for one year . We both have issues w sex . He has ed and I have performance anxiety and a hard time to finish but our sex lode is amazing and he’s the only person I’ve ever done it with where i can finish if he goes down on me etc without extra help of a toy. Before we dated he strictly stated he was purely vanilla which was fine w me because i came out of a toxic relationship which used kink to an extreme degree and to cope w the issues the relationship was having . So i forgot about it for a bit and didn’t care for the kinky life I used to know . Mt bf said his whole life he has been vanilla and hasn’t ever explored because he didn’t feel safe and now he does with me and is thinking that maybe he isn’t into anything because he hasn’t explored or tried . He said he’d do role play and wouldn’t mind spicing it up once in awhile but I low key want to introduce him to some things i was into like certain plays and dynamics but am scared to freak him off . He already has hard limits on edge play or honorifics like daddy or mister . But he does call me a good girl and spank me. How do I introduce him to more kinky things and dynamics or is it a bad idea to and it would fear him off. Any advice since sadly the BDSM subreddit got taken down i think? Thanks