AITH if I don't let my husband friend's stay in our house
I won't let my husband's male friends stay in our house. Don't get me wrong—they're both nice guys, but they're still guys.
We only have one bathroom, and it doesn't have a window. I've been to one of their houses before (he lives with his long-term girlfriend), and their bathroom was honestly one of the most disgusting thing I've ever seen. Picture pee and fecal splashes all over the toilet seat. That bathroom looked like it hasn't been cleaned in years!
So, naturally, my OCD makes me think, "If he keeps his own house like that, what can I expect when he stays at mine?"
We also have a spare room where I use a foldable mattress that I put on top of the sofa. That mattress would be difficult to clean, and this particular friend isn't exactly a guy who believes in deodorant.
Am I a bad wife for preferring my husband to spend time with his friends somewhere else instead? I literally dread it every time it's his turn to host.