I still have an expensive item of my ex’s and I feel so bad about it
My ex and I broke up in late 2024 and remained in contact until February the next year. The last time we talked was very emotional and tense, and though we had previously given each other back some borrowed items, he had brought some pottery I made for him back and asked for the 3DS he gave me back if I wasn’t going to use it. I thought I would use it, but I haven’t, and it’s over a year later and I feel so bad that I didn’t just give it back in the first place.
The conversation ended poorly and he blocked me, so I suppose there wasn’t really a way for me to contact him about returning it. I could have mailed it, but that felt like a physical violation of boundaries and now so much time has passed.
He deserves to have this back, but there’s nothing I can do without opening a can of worms that needs to stay shut for both of us.