Did I just get pumped and dumped?
A few weeks ago, I met a guy. Chill or whatever, but we just met so I wasn’t super into him. He was a perfect gentleman the whole night, and we ended up going back to his place. Oh the way, I mentioned an allergy and his immediate thought was concern over tomorrow’s breakfast. We get inside and I wanted to sleep. He initiated sex to my surprise. It was bad. I didn’t enjoy it. I went along with it. We laid in bed talking for a while (I don’t really remember what we talked about). We showered and he was washing me off like a partner would. All of this was kind of overwhelming to me. Anyway, night winds down, I’m tired and I go to sleep. In the morning, he starts holding my hand. We have sex again… well I again went along with it. It was bad. 30 seconds. He’s embarrassed.
He takes me home, I don’t know whether I should kiss him bye or what, so I say nice to meet you. He appeared surprised by that ending. Few days later, I tell him I have his stuff and we meet up to exchange items. He prior suggested we get coffee. That didn’t happen due to logistics. We get to the exchange, and He was so nervous.. he couldn’t look me in the eye or find his words… he started looking me in the eye and then jerked his head up and moved away and he was generally not really making sense while speaking, though I could tell he was trying to related to me. Naturally, conversation was cut kind of short… I didn’t know what to do and I didn’t want to acknowledge his nervousness.
Days later, I suggested coffee as he suggested previously. No response. A few days later, I said I had a great time with him Saturday and would like to see him
Again (though I didn’t really…but I was curious about him as a person and I didn’t want to sound rejecting). Still nothing. Almost 3 weeks of silence. What the fuck happened