Coincidence?
I (36F) have been single most of my adult life. I've worked hard and live in a nice apartment (can't get approved for a house) drive a decent car, have taken some great vacations. Often I am a bit lonely but overall I'm really happy. I have a dog and foster, walk loads, participate in the local dog community and rescue world, joined a maker space, etc. I rarely date and don't want kids.
Throughout my life women have always challenged me. I am often singled out by office bullies, criticism from people about almost everything is frequent. Is it because I'm a spinster? Would I have been burned at the stake at the whim of these women? Why am I threatening to them?
I'm not perfect. Likely a little too blunt for some and a little rash at times but I believe myself to be kind and honest and generally good - is this our fate?