My sister secretly married a Christan man and is settling for a man who cant even hang up a curtain
My sister 24f married a man 24 because they are waiting to have sex until marriage. She didn't tell my family who are very close. My grandparents don't know and neither do my aunts or cousins.
We didn't grow up religious but she's become Christian in her adult life. Her husband (let's call him Jeff) is a quiet guy and is difficult to have a conversation with. I work in a pub and can talk to almost anyone but Jeff.
They moved in together and eloped within 2 weeks. During the move he wasn't present. My sister moved everything in for them. She got my parents (both in their 60s) to move their stuff in. My dad built their bed for 5 hours alone while my sister was at church, since that's more important than moving... My mom spent days cleaning their new apartment and didn't receive anything more than a thank you. No dinner, no flowers, no "I owe you on" it was simply expected.
Recently I heard that they asked my parents to nail their tv to a wall, set up their tv and hang their curtains for them bc they "didn't know how"
My sister thinks she's independent but she's married a man child. She works as an RN and he is a kinesiologist (works with sports teams, big hockey boy) during a tough shift she had a panic attack and fainted while her patient was in critical condition, the patient was fine but my sister went to the ER to be checked since she passed out. This was a night shift so when she called me at 4am I was awake ( I had been drinking with my coworkers after shift and was still awake). My boyfriend who was sober drove me 30 mins to her place to check on her. Her "husband" was on a work trip and wasn't home.
My boyfriend and I stayed the night. I woke up to her taking on the phone with Jeff telling him the ordeal. She said I had slept over in their bed and my boyfriend took the couch. Jeff said "well the sheets need to be washed"
I've never been more appalled in my life... The sheets??? That's the priority here??? Not my sister's mental health, panic attack, or her stress level.
It makes me sick that she's with a total bafoon.
She constantly complains about the way he loads the dishwasher and puts dishes away. She's shamed him in his own family group chat sending pics of how he puts pots away and his sister apologizes for how bad it is.
What can a girl do when her sister married a dumbass bafoon?
Not to mention that my entire extended family has no idea they are married and it's a big secret I'm forbidden to tell anyone...whoops