u/After-Client-8043

I’m dating this girl it’s been around 9 months and I like her but Iv been having second thoughts lately a lot of them. I’m not a person who understands emotions well and Iv been kinda wanting to end the relationship due to both the second thoughts and some general things about dating her and life as a whole. However I really can’t stand the thought of her crying over it. She’s an awesome girl but I can’t help but feel not the one for me.. I don’t know what to do. End the relationship and let her find someone who won’t think like this and will emotionally connect and help her or stay with her and possibly stay where I don’t want to be or where she should be.