Difference in affection and sex drive
Hi, hope everyone is well! I am 20 M and my partner is 23 F. We have been dating around 3 1/2 months and are unfortunately long distance - but I work a flexible job so we don't go more than 2-3 weeks without seeing eachother and its often for a week at a time.
We are affectionate is small ways i guess, hold hands in public pretty much always, hand on lap in the car, cuddle while sleeping often. Its just in terms of anything more like kissing, making out, sex there is a real divide.
For example we don't just kiss/makeout. It always leads to sex which is okay, but we don't have it more than a couple times in a week which just isnt enough for me I feel.
She has expressed she doesn't always want to have sex when I brought it up after a week together with 0 sexual moments of any sort. Again that is fine and I would never want to force her but its like we either have sex or do nothing.
I would like even just to makeout for 30 minutes or give oral. We dont need to have sex every day just be intimate more than we are now i feel.
To be fair she has been a little depressed lately which I know kills libido and maybe im being harsh. But as young adults and a long distance couple I would want to be intimate just that bit more often.
Let me know if I am being reasonable or just wanting too much.