I (35f) met this amazing women(30f) and now its over for what feels like no reason
I, 35yo f, met an amazing women! (30yo f) and really thought id found something great! She's sweet, kind, funny, attractive, attentive, and doted on me constantly. After dating a while, we became gfs, and i felt really cared for in their attention. Then a didnt get a text one day, then 2. And asked if they were OK and got the old 'its not you, its me'. Out of nowhere. The week prior we talked about planning a trip, 3 days prior id sent them a naughty Pic and they asked if (and I quote) 'will i need to delete it if you break up with me?' I thought it was strange. Id never thought about breaking up with them. They said they just think of the worst case scenario.
Now im 'its not you its me'd and I cant let it go. I thought it was going so well. Did they just say the right things or did I just not see the signs? Why cant I let this go? They've reached out, said they didnt want to give up, but i dont understand why they tried to anyway. I said I didnt want to give up either but since I feel like im just bothering them. I should give this up shouldnt I? I feel alone when not long ago I thought I was so fulfilled. Am I the broken one?