I hate my aunts
I hate my aunts.
My story is this: when my brother got engaged and he was happy with his fiancée, and my mom was also very happy, my mom went to tell my grandmother the good news that her son was going to get married soon, God willing. My grandmother was happy, but then my aunt said about my brother’s fiancée, “what a trashy girl,” basically meaning she was awful or low-class.
My mom and I were both completely shocked. I’m still very upset about it because my mom is such a kind and generous person with them, while they act so cold and mean.
Then later, my uncle got to know a woman he plans to marry soon. Imagine this: everyone knew about it, even my cousins from my dad’s side, except my mom. We only found out one day before. My grandmother is old, so I’m not really upset with her — I’m upset with my aunts and uncles.
The point is, during my first pregnancy, I told them the news early, around the third month. But now that I’m pregnant again, I haven’t told anyone because I feel hurt on behalf of my mom.
What really saddens me is that my mom is genuinely so good to them, so I don’t understand why they behave this way. Is it jealousy? I honestly don’t know what the reason could be.