u/Aggravating-Key9164

Poor form to back out with vendor after confirming but before contract/deposit?

I’ve been debating between two hair and makeup artist teams. Both are highly recommended and do good work. I slightly prefer the style of HMUA A, but they’re a good deal more expensive than HMUA B. I can afford it, but have been debating if the extra spend was really worth it. I emailed B this afternoon saying I’d like to book and asked for next steps, but now I’m really wishing I had gone with A even though it’s more $$. I’m kind of taking this as a sign, and I think I will reach out to A first thing in the morning asking to book them. I realize I have no legal obligation to B, but how much poor form is it to back out only a day or two after saying I want to book them?

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u/Aggravating-Key9164 — 5 hours ago

Help! Stuck between two dresses

I’ve been dress shopping and am trying to winnow down my top picks. I’m a bit stuck between these two dresses. They are similar (v-neck and floral) but I like each for different reasons. I would love some second opinions. Which do you all think looks better on me?

I think the neckline of 1 is more flattering (does 2 make me look broad in pictures?). The long train on 2 is fun and dramatic, but 1 will be easier for the whole evening I think. I love a bolder floral so I like the pattern on both, maybe slightly more on dress 2. The wedding is a spring wedding at a vineyard - ceremony will be outdoors (🤞) and cocktails and dinner indoors. Cocktail attire for the guests. Thank you all!!!

u/Aggravating-Key9164 — 28 days ago