I (19M) don’t know how to tell my gf (19F) that she’s gained weight
I’ve been with my gf for 2 years since senior yr of high school and we’re in 2nd yr of uni rn,during this period of time she’s gained almost 40kgs while i maintained working out and going to the gym. She’s still very pretty and I obviously love her but i don’t know how to address this. we’re long distance and we see each other once every 2-3 months for a few days so it’s not like i can just take her to the gym with me or try to integrate some sort of activity in our day. she knows she’s gained weight and she’s insecure abt it but she fully believes she doesn’t eat anything all day and the weight just magically appeared and for example we were once talking abt our diet goals in general and after a long ass convo of what we want to do and how she plans on losing the weight she calls me 2hs later showing me the cheese cake and croissant x waffle new invention that she ordered. i genuinely don’t know what to do.