u/AggravatingAnimal725

19M. I have a question for you all. Is it really so rare among young people or all age people to find someone like me, who since youth(14+) choosed to being total, lifelong virgin all their life, to never try sex, to never try to find your love partner or if someone is confessing to you in love he will reject it rudely, etc by their own will. Like many people are very curious why I have choosed this type of life and confused. Even someone trying to convince me to change my mind. Maybe someone you know or yourself have choosed this path and how many?

If we hypotheticaly(I am pretty sure that for anyone of you it will happen sooner or later) think that some girl/man, that is can be described as normal, pretty or standard but not ugly(can be also virgin or not), conffesed in love to you, would you ever reject her in some way. I mean lightly or rudely. Why do I ask? Walking along my path of the eternal virgin for all my life I already have rejected 3 girls that have confessed to me in love(to be couple), just to stay virgin. So its interesting. Would you do the same in any possible scenarios?

Is it counting as loosing virginity some years ago with masturbators. Both types - one that was homemaden with spare parts and one that was bought.

You know guys, I am just so happy to find this subreddit and see that there are people like me. I am proud to be virgin and reject girls just to stay with you all and talk. You know here I have found my peace of mind. Among you all I feel like at home after many years. Hope to stay virgin all my life.

By this I mean at which age I will quit feel horny and like will understand that there is no way back and its already late for me to even try to have any relationship? At which age I will feel blessed because I will know that I have lived being a virgin and have rejected many girls(already 3) just to feel liberty from those animal desires?

By this I mean would you consider ,no matter if you are a woman or man and no matter what age you have, to stay all your life like a virgin? Or you would want to change this if there would be any sparkle of possible chance. As it goes for me, I see virginity as a God's blessing, so I would never even tried to hook up a girl. I want to stay with 0 counting at kisses, hugs, handsholdings, girlfriends and obviously sex for all my life. What about you guys? Even though many people says that I am attractive, noone ever said this from people of same age. It was always who are older than me like 20-30 years older. So I count this as a lie, because like it simplier them to say that I am pretty than tell truth and ruin hopes in me

Are you happy that you have spent your time in life for something that you could consider more valuable than girlfriends, love or sex? Like job, money, reputation, career status, studies, arts and carfts, music, trips, etc?

Hello everyone. I am new here and I don't know where to post this question. I am 19M and after studying biology and philosophy from my 12 because of school, high school, etc I was thinking about why do I even need to loose my Vcard. Like there is a philosophy that says that everything in this universe needs to exist, so like if we were given it then it means we don't need to loose it. And i wouldn't say that I am feeling asexual or something. I feel just attracted to 18+ anime, vids, cartoons or images, but not to the real one. And maybe because of that now I can't see any beauty in any women. I only see bad. I was starting to think about having an addiction, but every psychologist said that I am normal and don't have it. Maybe it all started when i was a freshman to a new class. They were always asking me about having girlfriend or loosing Vcard. One day I told them that I am asexual, not being an asexual. Why? Other answers didn't work for long. Then I started to study this type of humans and now i reached the point where my lie converted to a truth. So now I just want to have a no girlfriend or wife life and watch those 18+ vids as a replacement to satisfy my needs. So I wanted to hear your advices, points, anything. P.S: English is not my native language, so don't be mad, please