Need help or advice for overseas spouses
Hi Everyone. My situation is a bit complicated. I’m waiting for the immigration process. And me and my husband is about separated for a year. I’m doing all the child care alone myself and I’m having a bad depression. My husband is doing cold violent and will just avoid communicating with me. He doesn’t involve in his child’s life. Actually when he left the country and he joined the navy that’s cause the separation. He was threatened to cut us off to control me but later then I called the Military family help resources then he agreed to pay child support. He afraid that would affect his career.
I feel like I’m making all the sacrifices but not being appreciated. He said he will pay us like a phone bill. I don’t know what to do with this. I feel very depressed and desperate. He claim us as dependents and getting all the benefits from us.
I’m living like a single mom under this name of marriage. I thought of divorce but I need to bring my kid back to the states to study. I need to be a legal resident to do that so I agreed to continue with my immigration status. Also I find him cheating behind my back with another woman. I’m so traumatized by him and over a year I didn’t have had sex. He used to pressure me to have annal sex and I refused to.
Anyone would give me any advice?
Please 🙏
My son just had a disease and has been difficult to take care of