Have you confronted anyone who posted you and how did it go?
I discovered two different women posted stories about me and messaged both simply asking why they had to turn a private issue into a public shaming. Nothing I was posted about concerned violence, SA, criminal behavior or anything that's an actual safety threat.
Woman A: posted that I ghosted her, which is partially true, she was getting was too attached too soon and it was getting overwhelming, it seemed she was intent on locking me down early on when I just started dating and didn't want to settle on one person right away. I never made promises or any of that sort of thing. I cancelled plans with her one weekend and then texted saying this is just too overwhelming for me right now. She posted a long story about how I was the one for her, included details that we had sex, smoked marijuana together and stuff I just didn't want public. I messaged her recently saying something along lines of "I'm sorry things didn't work out but did you really have to post me on AWDTSG? It's pretty embarrassing being posted there like a criminal." She at first pretended to have no idea who I was and then claimed she had no idea what AWDTSG was and certainly never posted me. The post was anonymous but clearly described our time together.
Woman B: breadcrumbed me for months, would only go on public dates with me to restaurants shed pick and I'd pay for. Then I'd drop her off at home after. Shed disappear for days between texting then suddenly pop back up like nothing happened. A few times I attempted to have discussions about this and where things were going but she's just deflect and then not respond for a day or two. Finally gave up and deleted her number. Months later she messages me again like nothing happened and said she had a fun time hanging out but met someone. I was a little upset about this because it was clear she wasn't interested and just using me and popping back up like that kinda made me mad. I texted back I didn't care and that all she did was use me and breadcrumb me. She posts a comment calling me pushy and saying I treated her terribly which is completely untrue. This all happened 8-9 months ago and a couple weeks suddenly pops back up again to tell me she dodged a bullet because I was posted on awdtsg. I brought up that I knew she made comments and told her those were lies. Again she just denied even posting anything.
Are the women told to deny posts that are clearly them? I just find it weird they can't even own up to saying things they clearly posted about me. I'd even go on to say how badly this affected me, how I thought about quitting my job even felt humiliated to show my face anywhere in public.