r/AWDTSGisToxic

I have been posted multiple times, made up comments, degrading stuff etc. I have now decided to delete the apps as I can't take being posted another time. The stress it has caused and pain to my stomach each time im posted is too much to handle. I hope one day these groups are removed from facebook for good, until then farewell to online dating

People I meet IRL use these groups too. You're fucked either way. The real problem are these groups and they need to be shut down. Stop blaming the dating apps.

https://m.facebook.com/groups/596166328416522/?http\_ref=eyJ0cyI6MTc3OTIzMTE0NzAwMCwiciI6IiJ9

I know it’s been gone from the App Store but still remains on google play. It seems like the whole things on life support but can’t find any updates on any of the lawsuits.

Feel like if we all come together in this forum we can maybe process that many reports it gets looked in

I remember when AWDTSG first came out, i thought "well this wont last long, facebook is going to get sued". And here we are, years later, and its still a thing, and its grown. There needs to be protests outside of facebook offices or something. This is honestly insane.

Hey everyone, I was posted twice out of revenge and spite and recently found out about it. The comments are really sickening and while both posters were anonymous I know who one of them is. When I confronted her about it I kindly asked her to take it down and if I had done something to wrong her I’d be open to talking it out. She immediately blocked me.

Ofc exes and old talking stages chimed in and drug me through the dirt. I’m by no means perfect but I’m far from the way they make me out to be. I’ve always treated women with respect and have been genuine. It’s just certain ones can’t handle being told no…

It’s started to hurt my reputation and dating life. Over the last year I took three women out on dates because I really desire a relationship, however come to find out they’re in the groups and I’m assuming searched me up. I typically either get ghosted or told they’re not interested after that. It’s really taken a toll on me.

I’m going to start the process of trying to get the posts removed. I believe once you do this I’ve read somewhere that whoever made the post will be able to see your email and address. I honestly am not comfortable with that. I’ll do what I have to do but I don’t want crazy women knowing where I live. Any ideas or insight?

I discovered two different women posted stories about me and messaged both simply asking why they had to turn a private issue into a public shaming. Nothing I was posted about concerned violence, SA, criminal behavior or anything that's an actual safety threat.

Woman A: posted that I ghosted her, which is partially true, she was getting was too attached too soon and it was getting overwhelming, it seemed she was intent on locking me down early on when I just started dating and didn't want to settle on one person right away. I never made promises or any of that sort of thing. I cancelled plans with her one weekend and then texted saying this is just too overwhelming for me right now. She posted a long story about how I was the one for her, included details that we had sex, smoked marijuana together and stuff I just didn't want public. I messaged her recently saying something along lines of "I'm sorry things didn't work out but did you really have to post me on AWDTSG? It's pretty embarrassing being posted there like a criminal." She at first pretended to have no idea who I was and then claimed she had no idea what AWDTSG was and certainly never posted me. The post was anonymous but clearly described our time together.

Woman B: breadcrumbed me for months, would only go on public dates with me to restaurants shed pick and I'd pay for. Then I'd drop her off at home after. Shed disappear for days between texting then suddenly pop back up like nothing happened. A few times I attempted to have discussions about this and where things were going but she's just deflect and then not respond for a day or two. Finally gave up and deleted her number. Months later she messages me again like nothing happened and said she had a fun time hanging out but met someone. I was a little upset about this because it was clear she wasn't interested and just using me and popping back up like that kinda made me mad. I texted back I didn't care and that all she did was use me and breadcrumb me. She posts a comment calling me pushy and saying I treated her terribly which is completely untrue. This all happened 8-9 months ago and a couple weeks suddenly pops back up again to tell me she dodged a bullet because I was posted on awdtsg. I brought up that I knew she made comments and told her those were lies. Again she just denied even posting anything.

Are the women told to deny posts that are clearly them? I just find it weird they can't even own up to saying things they clearly posted about me. I'd even go on to say how badly this affected me, how I thought about quitting my job even felt humiliated to show my face anywhere in public.