Ex posted me in AWDSG and TeaApp - what can I do?
Hey everyone, I could really use some advice here.
I was in a relationship that ended about two months ago. It didn’t work out, and we went our separate ways. Unfortunately, my ex has always been a very jealous person, and since the breakup it feels like she’s been on a mission to damage my reputation and personal life.
I recently found out (through a girl I know) that my ex has been posting about me in those “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook groups and on the Tea app as well. I don’t have access to any of those groups or apps, so I can’t actually see what’s being said.
The girl who told me about it didn’t show me screenshots or anything, but she mentioned enough details that made it clear the posts are real. From what I understand, it’s painting me in a a very bad way, and I’m worried this is now affecting my chances of meeting somebody.
I’m honestly frustrated because I don’t even have the ability to defend myself or see exactly what’s being said.
So I have a few questions:
- Is there any way to get access to these groups or posts if I’m not a member?
- What’s the best way to get something like this taken down?
- Has anyone dealt with something similar, and how did you handle it?
I’m not trying to escalate things—I just want this to stop and move on with my life.
Any advice would be really appreciated.
UPDATE 07/03/26**:**
After about 3 days of digging and trying, I was finally able to get access to my local FB group and the Tea app and actually see the posts.
Honestly… it’s crazy the amount of negativity and straight-up misery she’s putting out about me. This is no joke.
I’m really glad I took action and didn’t just ignore it.
Right now I’m working on getting the posts taken down. I’ll keep you guys updated on how that goes.
UPDATE 07/03/26**:**
Since I've infiltrated myself into those groups, I've got the links of my posts, they are both anonymous.
I have submitted a tea app content takedown request, you can find it on their website, also submitted a DCMA complaint other their email.
Submitted a DMCA complaint on Fb website with the link attached
Guys, it's no joke in my city AWDSG fb group, there are 90k members and average 200 posts a day...
I'll keep you posted on how this goes.