r/MensRights

I am at a point now where the pure presence of many women is enough to annoy me. Seriously, I just hate how women act nowadays, I hate how they use us for their amusement and mess with our feelings, use us financially etc. Now I start to get annoyed just when girls are around, especially the ones in groups. They are loud, the constant giggling, the bullshit they talk, how they make fun about guys, the entitlement. Even a 4/10 thinks she is a 8/10 now just because of the constant confirmation especially on social media. How do I start not to hate women?

I've been watching a lot of debates between liberals and conservatives recently and both sides won't miss any opportunity to talk about issues that impact women.

Damn, it must be a charmed life to constantly have EVERYONE kissing your ass.

I do wanna preface this by saying that it's not all women (duh) and that this is by no means a "Women are awful, we need to acknowledge it" kind of post. Most people aren't involved with these dumb debates online anyway (thank God).

But I know many guys who have had negative, toxic or even downright cruel experiences with women. Some of it was the result of their own dumb decisions (at least in part) and some of it was the result of being manipulated and/or betrayed.

Yet none of them (and I mean NONE of them) say that they hate women, that women are trash, that women as vain and selfish, and all of them still have good relations with the female family members of their lives.

On the other hand, women who have had bad experiences with men, even IF they have positive male family members and negative female family members, are coddled, given "You go girl!" praise and support, and men are even told to be sympathetic to them "Aw baby who hurt you?" (this courtesy would NEVER be extended to an openly misogynistic man)

What baffles me is what's with this difference? Sure, when you are in an echo chamber of propaganda and all the people in it are sharing anonymous anecdotes, it can make you feel validated. But there are TONS of men who could do the same thing and just don't. Every man I know who has had horrible experiences with women do not conclude that hating women is the solution. They all managed to bounce back in some way. Why can't (these specific) women do the same?

Have you ever encountered profeminist online censorship? Can you give some examples of this?

Do you think that the new nonsense like "digital violence" and massive attempts to restrict the internet (ID, age verification and even chat surveillance) around the world is somehow connected to feminists' desire for even greater censorship?

I saw on YouTube that a woman somewhere, maybe a few weeks or a month or so ago, groped a man's crotch with a smile and jokingly said, " I know why you're single!" while at work, implying he was not well endowed and it was caught on a security camera. I tried looking it up earlier today and couldn't find it. Could anyone share the link?

Are there any articles or videos disclosing her name?

A while ago I saw a post where feminists said all men are misogynists, and it got a lot of support. So I commented that yes, I was a misogynist and I accepted it, and then they started attacking me in the comments, because being a misogynist is the worst thing ever.

But that same page admitted to being misandrist, they said it with pride, and everyone was giving them positive reactions.

Isn't that hypocrisy?

My workplace has put a information board up that is all about men's mental health which is a step that I never thought that I would see in my time working in the health care field.

Unfortunately I am unable to upload a photo of the board due to photography in the workplace but I am excited that they have done this especially because we don't have many male staff where I work.

Just had my first break up.

I’d say pretty late in life lol. Was just wondering how you guys handle it.

Many types of inappropriate or harmful behavior that are punished in men are considered acceptable — and sometimes even encouraged — in women. The double standards men face are unreasonable.

What are your thoughts on this video?

Top comment received 8,000 upvotes. Claiming that he ‘holds men accountable for women not acknowledging or making eye contact with other men’ just pure misandry. But me as a young man going for run isn’t threatened by hecklers or attacks from other men in the street at all? Especially where I’m from in the UK. Such incredible takes. Must be rage bait at this point.

https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/thenatureofviolentcrimeinenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2024