u/THEbeautifuLIE

. . .b/c she MAY HAVE had postpartum depression; all while Twitter & TikTok blame / lecture men on why we’re still wrong somehow. Lmbo. . . Guys, refuse to be gaslit. It’s the Twilight Zone out here. 

actual quotes:
“. . .women who kill their own kids are not a threat to others. But men aren’t rational, they just want to punish her because their feelings demand it. Men should not be in charge.” —@RealDianeYap

“. . .they came to that home and found THREE dead children, a woman near death, and the husband unscathed and they believe THE MAN?!?!” —@_ayandamay

“Whatever happens in the Lindsey Clancy trial, a main conversation we need to be having is why the hell men are still going on with their lives like their wives aren’t struggling? . . .Allowing your wife to go through that while your life continues is abuse.” —@hell_line0

“Women don’t strangle. . . They poison or drown them. . .” — actress Lisa Rinna (claiming her & her therapist agreed on this during her last session)

That’s it.

That’s the whole post.  

That’s the whole point. 

Enjoy your Monday, fellas!

In 2018, I was having labrum / rotator cuff surgery to finally fix the issue of my constantly-dislocating shoulder.

((sidebar: How bad was my shoulder at the time? It was so bad that when I did a spin move during a basketball game to get around the defender. . .with absolutely zero contact, stumbling, etc. . .the spin itself threw my arm out of the socket. Rough times!))

While being evaluated & prepped for surgery, my doctor injected a liquid into my shoulder that would make everything easier to see during X-rays, MRIs, etc. The needle was a good 8-10 inches long. Now, do you remember the cartoons where the doctor would tap someone on the knee & they involuntarily kick him across the room? WELP - Once my doctor got his needle about halfway into my shoulder, he hit a nerve. When he did, my left arm flew forward & DRILLED him in the diaphragm; knocking the air out of him and sending him backwards where he tumbled over a chair & slammed into the door!

He was fine after a few mins, but when he briefly left the room to compose himself. . .I almost had a stroke I was laughing so hard! LOL!

If you’re not familiar with the “WHATEVER” podcast: it’s a show where a panel of 8-10 women discuss/debate issues w/the male host & maybe one other male/female special guest.

There’s a point in nearly every show where he goes around the table to each woman & asks, “Are you a feminist?” One panel’s answers kinda shocked me, so I went investigating into his past shows. I stopped after about 12-13 episodes and of the 100 women I tallied responses from:

- SEVEN(7) danced around the topic & never really gave an honest answer.
- TWELVE(12) said they were feminists.
- EIGHTY-ONE(81) said “no” outright.

Now, combine that with celebrities like:
— Ronda Rousey
— Judge Judy
— Kim Kardashian
— Candace Owens
— etc. . .who unapologetically make it inexhaustibly-clear that they are NOT feminists. . .and you begin to realize how “right” so many of us have been about feminism over the past 50+ years. Each of them were saying precisely the same things we’ve been saying all along!

Hold the line & keep your heads up, boys!

Awhile back, one of my cousins borrowed $6,500 from me & agreed to a $200 bi-weekly payback schedule (all he could afford to do).

Around the 4th payment, he apologized for not having the full amount (I think he had $75). I said, “That’s cool.” & while we were heading out the door, something hit me out of absolutely NOWHERE:

((About 7 years prior, he let me borrow his car to go to work (we were roommates). That day, there was a thunderstorm - I hydroplaned & crashed into the car in front of me (no damage to their vehicle, but nearly $3,000 worth of necessary repairs to his). He decided to pay out-of-pocket instead of involving the insurance company. When I told him I’d work my butt off to get him the funds he needed. . .he refused me; knowing I was basically flat broke & without a job that could stack $3,000 quickly.))

When I snapped out of that memory, I told him, “BRO! I never paid you a single dime for repairs when I had the accident in your car back then!” He looked so infinitely-puzzled (like “What? Who cares??”) & told me not to sweat it b/c he was able to make the repairs himself. I was shaking my head in disbelief like, “Dude. . .I can not beLIEVE I just remembered that! Know what? We’re straight - You don’t owe me another cent.” He was basically speechless, but when he tried to find the words to protest, I said “Nope! That’s it, fam. Consider your debt repaid! My bad for not remembering this sooner.”

My cousin threw a party.
At some point, there was maybe 7-8 of us in the kitchen laughing, drinking, clowning around, etc.

I was standing in front of the fridge. . .and oblivious to 2 things: (1.) I thought there was only 6 inches between my back & the fridge, but it was more like 24 inches. (2.) I had no idea someone had placed their drink on top of it.

So, I took a sip of my drink, leaned back towards where I thought the fridge was, lost my balance, slammed into the refrigerator door & knocked the cup off - which I didn’t realize b/c I never looked up & my family was laughing so hard at me stumbling that they didn’t notice the cup either!

It dropped straight down, grazed my left forearm (about 6 inches from my wrist). . .AND I EFFIN’ CAUGHT IT! Upright & didn’t spill a single effin’ drop! As soon as I did, my family went from laughing to *gasping* at seeing what just happened. It was silent for about 3 seconds, then we ERUPTED! ROARING & high-fiving like our football team just scored the game-winner against our most hated rival. Lol! We turned up so much that somebody turned the music off & everybody came running towards the kitchen to see what the commotion was about. LMBO!

I could try that with the cup & the fridge for another 10,000 years and never pull it off again.

((put the torches & pitchforks away for a sec, lol))

If it’s relatively-soon (weeks/months) after a significant relationship (years) that left you mentally/emotionally/physically distraught &/or children are involved: understandable.

If you are hoping to get back with your ex: understandable.

If you are trying to protect your friend/relative from someone legitimately “evil” (objectively malicious): understandable.

Beyond that (& I know I’m in the inexhaustibly, exceptionally-extreme minority on this), I just don’t get it. The notion that you get to determine who your friend, relative or ex pursues romantically is radically unbalanced. I can’t fathom believing you deserve that level of control over someone you have no interactions with or intentions of dating anymore.

A close friend of mine was venting about another friend of ours dating his ex. They broke up 10 YEARS AGO, hadn’t interacted outside of facebook, lived in different states and my effin’ friend was effin’ MARRIED! Yet, it genuinely hurt him to the core and everyone else, while thinking he was abit TOO affected, believe our homey had broken “guy code”. I have 4 or 5 married female friends who’ve made it clear how insidious (even malicious) it would be for one of their friends or relatives to date any of their exes.

From a personal standpoint, I have never taken issue with anyone (friend, relative or otherwise) who wanted/attempted to date an ex of mine; zero problems with it. I have also never dated a friend/relative’s ex. In fact, I can remember at least 3 different instances of a friend’s ex shooting their shot (years later, no ties to each other, 2 not even living in the same state anymore) & I refused to engage or pursue. . .but not because I believe it’s wrong - I just respect that they do.

. . .AND MEN ARE TO BLAME?!?!? Lol!

MENsRIGHTs means MEN have every RIGHT to support or avoid any movie we choose; regardless of how they attempt to shame us.

ESPECIALLY when some didn’t show up either!

As we know, the MeToo movement radically altered a ton of happenings in & around Hollywood. Women felt many of those alterations were positive (but they’re still suffering & trying to get free of the negative ones). One such thing was the addition of “intimacy coordinators” to ensure actors / actresses weren’t taken advantage of. It would be a fairly safe assumption to believe the outcome would be far less nudity and fewer gratuitously-intimate moments & sex scenes overall.

What DID happen, however, was a radical, tsunami-level, Everest avalanche of series & movies with penises on full display. . .and these are not “blink & you miss it” Sharon Stone Basic Instinct shots. These are close-up, lingering, high definition, focused, intensely-deliberate scenes (not moments - scenes). Often, the story is written to ensure they can get male full frontal nudity in it and they’re going out of their way to ensure women (in those scenes) are covered / protected.

Not only are these productions being made, but they are outright CELEBRATED! In fact, the full frontal male nudity is often the driving advertisement for the upcoming series or movie (countless articles on Euphoria, Minx, All the Queen’s Men, Leftovers, the Boys, Pam & Tommy, All the Queen’s Men, P Valley, Watchmen [HBO], Sense8, Westworld, etc etc etc). The scenes go viral on social media every single time & women get to unapologetically enjoy it (the stuff they say would get men cancelled & probably thrown in prison. Lol!) There is a plethora of female directors and female producers being interviewed (typically by a female interviewer) where the majority of what they discuss is the different actor’s genitalia in their series or movie: whether or not it was his actual penis, how ‘peculiar’ one actor’s genitalia was, the fact that you don’t see UNCIRCUMCISED penises like [his] very often, how uncomfortable the male actor was, the hilarity of how small it was or the excitement of how large it was, etc. They unapologetically celebrate the moments from every angle. To end this post, I am simply going to describe just a few specific scenes but sex/gender swap the males & the females. . .and you determine whether or not you have (or would) ever see such mainstream scenes:

A young lady is uncomfortable with the high school female locker room experience & hates when she mistakenly sees another girl’s genitals. Then, the camera gives her perspective and cuts to close-up-after-close-up-after-close-up of different vulvas, labias &/or clitoris’ on full display; even oftentimes dropping the camera view & shooting where the genitalia could be seen even if the girl is wearing a towel. The genitalia of well over 25 different female characters is shown. (Euphoria)

A man is starting a porn magazine & is holding auditions for the first female centerfold. He, intentionally, did not tell the women until they arrived that they would be completely, 100% naked stating “. . .and that means your pu—y.”. The shocked, nervous girls accept the situation. Then, with about 7 employees of the magazine at a table looking on (5 men and 2 women), a montage ensues of women stepping into the room one at a time, stepping forward & dropping their pants/panties to the floor. The camera zooms in & cuts to vag-after-vag-after-vag; only interrupted by the faces of the mostly male audition council & showing their disapproval, confusion or excitement. The genitalia of well over 10 different female characters is shown. (Minx)

A naked woman is having an introspective moment, talking to herself. . .when the camera pans down for an EXTREMELY high def closeup of her genitalia. Then, her labia & clitoris are animated (not “cartoonized”, just brought to life) and so begins a cpl-minute scene of her having a conversation with her always fully displayed genitalia. The shot is so close, they can’t fit her face & genitals in the same shot, so they have to cut back and forth. (Pam & Tommy)

An article was published that discussed what two male writers believe different female cartoon characters look like naked - mostly discussing the specific aspects of her vagina in great detail; based on her character’s behavior & attitude. They named the article “Movie’s Minges” or “Production’s P-ssies” or Cinema’s C-nts” (it’s insane to believe, fellas, but I swear to God - the actual article was called “Disney’s dicks” and received absolutely zero backlash).

I’m gonna stop here b/c I just don’t feel like enumerating the 25+ other examples, but fyi: every example had the male genitalia as the entire focus, the purpose of the scene. . .and at least 10 of these scenes has a closeup of an actress actively grabbing or holding the actor’s exposed penis (potentially prosthetic). Can you even imagine?? Lmbo! . . .but these examples are defended by modern women & feminists as though women ever participated in mainstream scenes like this (and so regularly over a decade+).

. . .but I kinda am & we have the right to celebrate every tiny victory we get. The World Cup just became the greatest Men’s advocate ever. . .& all we did was be ourselves!

The entire planet has eyes on America; going viral everyday for something new & something different. . .and every bit of it contradicts the image those in our own country have pushed out to the rest of the world.

I’ve seen 5 different videos from people visiting 4 different states flabbergasted at how single & groups of 2 or 3 women are able to comfortably walk around with no one harassing them or even speaking to them; wearing high end accessories, showing plenty of skin & loudly enjoying themselves. I’ve seen, at least, 15 videos mentioning no police or security being around where hundreds of people (obviously WOMEN included) were drinking, dancing, chanting & partying. There are COUNTLESS videos mirroring each other like:

“This guy just paid for our meal!”
“This guy just bought me & my wife drinks!”
“This guy just invited my family to a barbecue with his family!”
“This guy actually drove us to [whatever location] b/c he said we would get lost.”

. . .and sorry, ladies, but this is not hyperbole - they, literally, stated “This guy” every single time & not once “This woman/lady”; outside of greetings/conversation. The content creators from other countries are having a field day showcasing how evil some of the things said of Western / American men were, but even those with no agenda are carrying a monster torch for us, boys!

. . .and all we had to do was be us.

((Remember, folks: “UNPOPULAR opinion”. . .not my personal worldview &/or political leanings.))

As of right now,
The United States of America is embroiled in a massive ideological battle between its citizens on the subject of borders, immigration & deportation. There’s also an ongoing battle regarding women’s rights (especially regarding abortion); including the different considerations for biological sex vs gender ideologies. The President is absolutely DESPISED by a massive conglomerate of American citizens AND the country is in a defacto state-of-war with Iran (regardless of the “cease fire” agreements that seem to pop up every 48 hrs). . .

. . .and yet, for a month+, America has consistently gone viral with citizens of other countries praising every aspect of American culture & stating their desire to become a member of this society. Many supported those issues (mentioned above) from afar in the past, but now claim they feel as though they’ve been betrayed & lied to their entire lives regarding American people, hospitality, food, fun, guns, danger (especially regarding women), etc etc etc

Whether they are right, wrong or indifferent, there is an inexhaustible plethora of foreign citizens that, not only adore the America they’ve experienced, but defend Americans & American culture to anyone who will listen. So, while these issues are not EXCLUSIVELY one political party or another, I really can’t see how the people who witnessed America firsthand & ecstatically praise America across the board will be swayed by any “left leaning” arguments they hear in person or see online in the future.

Just my thoughts - what are yours?

((Remember, folks: “UNPOPULAR opinion”. . .not my personal worldview &/or political leanings.))

As of right now,
The United States of America is embroiled in a massive ideological battle between its citizens on the subject of borders, immigration & deportation. There’s also an ongoing battle regarding women’s rights (especially regarding abortion); including the different considerations for biological sex vs gender ideologies. The President is absolutely DESPISED by a massive conglomerate of American citizens AND the country is in a defacto state-of-war with Iran (regardless of the “cease fire” agreements that seem to pop up every 48 hrs). . .

. . .and yet, for a month+, America has consistently gone viral with citizens of other countries praising every aspect of American culture & stating their desire to become a member of this society. Many supported those issues (mentioned above) from afar in the past, but now claim they feel as though they’ve been betrayed & lied to their entire lives regarding American people, hospitality, food, fun, guns, danger (especially regarding women), etc etc etc

Whether they are right, wrong or indifferent, there is an inexhaustible plethora of foreign citizens that, not only adore the America they’ve experienced, but defend Americans & American culture to anyone who will listen. So, while these issues are not EXCLUSIVELY one political party or another, I really can’t see how the people who witnessed America firsthand & ecstatically praise America across the board will be swayed by any “left leaning” arguments they hear in person or see online in the future.

Just my thoughts - what are yours?

In a few of the “unpopular opinion groups, I posted (below):

***”Unpopular opinion: Blaming men for “female led movie” flops is not empowering women; quite the opposite actually.

In the BILLION dollar platform that is the NFL, more than 30 teams have packed up & relocated due to lack of support. There are 15 now-defunct NBA franchises. 27 MLB teams & more than 40 NHL franchises have relocated or cease to exist, today, and there are 71 men’s pro sports LEAGUES (not “teams” - “LEAGUES!”) that are no longer around due to lack of support. . .

. . .and not once not ever not never has anyone EVER blamed women for any of it. It’s OUR (men’s) league - if we want it, we support it. If we don’t want it, we don’t support it. It’s just that simple for us. When women put the onus of their “flops” on men, they are saying they can’t be successful without men’s support. When they blame men’s early reviews for the abysmal cinema showings, they’re saying that women can’t decide for themselves whether the movie is quality or not. That is, quite literally, the opposite of ‘empowerment’, my friends.

((and here’s the kicker: If ZERO men. . .and only 1/5th of American women (ONLY American women) supported Supergirl (w/America’s average ticket price at $16) - it would’ve cleared $500million. How, on earth, can men be blamed for women not showing up??))”***

In the BILLION dollar platform that is the NFL, more than 30 teams have packed up & relocated due to lack of support. There are 15 now-defunct NBA franchises. 27 MLB teams & more than 40 NHL franchises have relocated or cease to exist, today, and there are 71 men’s pro sports LEAGUES (not “teams” - “LEAGUES!”) that are no longer around due to lack of support. . .

. . .and not once not ever not never has anyone EVER blamed women for any of it. It’s OUR (men’s) league - if we want it, we support it. If we don’t want it, we don’t support it. It’s just that simple for us. When women put the onus of their “flops” on men, they are saying they can’t be successful without men’s support. When they blame men’s early reviews for the abysmal cinema showings, they’re saying that women can’t decide for themselves whether the movie is quality or not. That is, quite literally, the opposite of ‘empowerment’, my friends.

((and here’s the kicker: If ZERO men. . .and only 1/5th of American women (ONLY American women) supported Supergirl (w/America’s average ticket price at $16) - it would’ve cleared $500million. How, on earth, can men be blamed for women not showing up??))

In the BILLION dollar platform that is the NFL, more than 30 teams have packed up & relocated due to lack of support. There are 15 now-defunct NBA franchises. 27 MLB teams & more than 40 NHL franchises have relocated or cease to exist, today, and there are 71 men’s pro sports LEAGUES (not “teams” - “LEAGUES!”) that are no longer around due to lack of support. . .

. . .and not once not ever not never has anyone EVER blamed women for any of it. It’s OUR (men’s) league - if we want it, we support it. If we don’t want it, we don’t support it. It’s just that simple for us. When women put the onus of their “flops” on men, they are saying they can’t be successful without men’s support. When they blame men’s early reviews for the abysmal cinema showings, they’re saying that women can’t decide for themselves whether the movie is quality or not. That is, quite literally, the opposite of ‘empowerment’, my friends.

((and here’s the kicker: If ZERO men. . .and only 1/5th of American women (ONLY American women) supported Supergirl (w/America’s average ticket price at $16) - it would’ve cleared $500million. How, on earth, can men be blamed for women not showing up??))