26 (F4M) #Europe #online I want to meet my person and build a relationship.
This is a long ass post. I can't put myself out there with a couple of vague paragraphs.
I'm going to start with myself.
I'm 26F, living in Paris. 5'6, athletic.
Life rn is me going after a bunch of personal projects, working, and working out. I love being social, family and friends are a huge part of life.
I want to put the ugly out first, cons of dating me:
I'm pretty emotionally sensitive in the way that sometimes my emotions feel too big and intense. When that happens I do tend to withdraw, and become full of anxiety.
I also find it difficult to share what's bothering me when it comes to relationships. I will dismiss things that bother me until they build up and become too much to deal with. Then I blow it out of proportion.
I get attached quite quickly to people that I feel a connection with. Its mostly why dating is so exhausting for me, it's repeatedly one heartbreak after the other.
Rest assured that these are once in a while issues. I'm slowly but surely working on all of them.
Pros of dating me (curated by friends):
I care deeply and put in the effort to show that. Your problems will become my problems and your happiness will become my happiness.
I'm extroverted and have happy go lucky vibes. I'm not chill girl, I won't pretend to be nonchalant.
I will push you to be better in whichever way works.
I (think) want a partner who is:
Emotionally intelligent (to counter my emotional stupid), understanding, and gentle.
Knows how to resolve conflict or atleast the willingness to resolve it over avoiding it.
Looking for a real partnership to go through life's ups and downs together.
Ready to put in the effort it requires to develop and maintain a relationship.
Fun to be around, ambitious (in anyway), caring and affectionate.
I'm tired of people who say they are all these things but fail to show up when it's required of them to be there. I'm also tired of people who let a good connection die because they're too afraid to open up, care too much about being hurt, or chase greener grass.
I'm not fazed by imperfect humans, that's where the flavor comes from. I want a relationship where we completely accept each other for better or worse. We work on the worse parts and celebrate the better parts. I'm so over the individualistic bullshit I see in dating advice and mindset everywhere. Sometimes we have to put our needs to the side and be uncomfortable to be there for the people we love, that's just life. If you're hyper protective about yourself, you're never gonna fully experience everything life and relationships have to offer.
I'm fully aware that I sound like a red flag (I'm not, trust me bro) but this is what I truly want. If my post sounds like something you're looking for too, shoot me a message with three pros and cons of dating you. It's only fair that I know yours, because you already know mine :)