u/Aggravating_Neck4949

It makes me happy that you're around. Around this world I mean. You can be wherever you want to of course But I'm glad you're here. Keep going!

Here's a helpful tool that will serve you well in life - "What do you mean by that?" or how about this "It sounds like you're saying X. That makes me feel Y. Is that what you mean?"

Asking clarifying questions, when you think someone hasn't responded the way you want them to, or you think they're espousing some view you disagree with can save you a lot of trouble in life. We all come from different subcultures and dialects, misunderstandings are common but easily correctable when you try to communicate. Or, keep going like you are, cutting people off at the tiniest misunderstanding, one ungraceful turn of phrase. Don't be surprised if people treat you the same way and don't go to bat for you when you do that.

I'm hoping this is just a misunderstanding on my part as well. We could have had a conversation about things. But if this is what I think it is, wow, please list someone else instead, I feel used that you would ask for my help and then completely cut ties as soon as you get what you want. If what I said offended you so badly while I was being supportive, you are going to have a hard time interacting with people. Or you'll be that person that no one trusts because you misinterpret everything to the point that it seems malicious.

I just want to say I think you're really cool. I know we don't really know each other that well, but ever since I saw you that day in that class I've been so curious about you. You have a great fashion sense, you're bold with your self expression, and you value good communication. I think we probably have pretty similar values and interests and I'd love to learn more about each other in a quieter setting. Of course I tend to panic and sabotage myself when good things actually happen and its trickier because of how we know each other... and I haven't even seen you around anyway, for all I know you decided to not come back this year and move on to other things or places instead. I hope I never made you uncomfortable. And if I don't see you again, I hope you find someone who makes you happy and treats you well. I hope you get to wherever you want to be, but don't lose sight of the moment in the quest of getting there.

Until next time,