u/Aggravating_Stay_455

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J’ai 32 ans et j’aimerais rencontrer des femmes, qui comme moi, aiment les activités parisiennes: séances de cinéma d’art et d’essai, sorties au théâtre, cafés chaleureux cet automne, et petites adresses sympas où dîner (dans l’est parisien évidemment)

Un peu plus sur moi : je suis de gauche, j’aime beacoup discuter, les manifestations, les soirées techno, les livres, la philosophie (niveau débutante), les chats, l’astrologie, les concerts, et comme un peu tout le monde les voyages ( + sac à dos, nature, randonnées que grand hôtels de luxe même si j’aime le confort)

J’aimerais surtout rencontrer des personnes curieuses, ouvertes d’esprit et partantes pour créer de vrais liens malgré la trentaine et nos habitudes...

LGBTQIA+ friendly et à celles et ceux qui viennent d’horizons différents 😊

I'm a 31-year-old Virgo woman, and about six months ago I met a Scorpio man at an after party. We quickly became close friends, but I initially ruled out anything romantic because of our height difference (he's 5'3" and I'm 5'11").

We've built a really comfortable friendship, and I feel like I can talk to him about absolutely anything without feeling judged. Even the things that bothered me at first (he talks a LOT) have become things I barely notice anymore.

Lately we've been spending a lot more time together going to festivals, grabbing drinks, talking on the phone (i hate that usually), and confiding in each other. I've felt increasingly comfortable and emotionally connected to him.

Yesterday, after a party, we had a misunderstanding that turned into an argument. He thought I had told him I'd meet him outside, while I stayed inside longer than he expected.

This is a huge red flag because it shows a very controlling side, and strangely enough, it sexually attracted me.

We ended up going back to his place, and things became intimate. Seven hours of sex, I had such an intense orgasm that it continued in the bathroom while I was showering. I'm still in shock and completely exhausted ever since…

We spent all day sleeping and hanging out together. Now I'm feeling completely overwhelmed. I've never experienced this level of sexual connection, intensity, and comfort with someone before. He wants us to be friends with benefits, and I'm sharing my doubts with him because I feel like this is the first time I've formed an emotional, rather than sexual, bond with a man. (My Venus is in Scorpio, if you know what I mean.)

Have any Virgo women here had a similar experience with a Scorpio man? How did it develop, and how did you navigate the transition ?

Edit: Thanks for the feedback. The Scorpio-Virgo duo seems very passionate. He messaged me back to see how I was doing, we flirted a little, and I feel good about him. To be continued...