r/virgoseason

I’ve been feeling a weird pull toward community/connection. Having people around sounds nice, but at the same time withdrawing and wanting to be left alone comes so naturally 😂

I’m wondering if there’s something about Virgo season/birthdays that brings it out more?

I enjoy my alone time, at the same time that comes with overthinking, isolating, and feeling like I have so much time to get things done.

Idk, how are you all doing lol

Dear Virgos,

This is coming from a Taurus man who has a slightly embarrassing confession to make.

I am very, very fond of you people.

And by "fond," I mean I have spent an unreasonable amount of time observing a Virgo woman and thinking,

"How is someone this pretty, this intelligent, this put together, and simultaneously this capable of worrying about something that happened six months ago?"

Seriously. You guys are fascinating.

There is something ridiculously attractive about Virgo energy.

The way you notice tiny details.

The way you can look at something everyone else completely missed and immediately point out what is wrong with it.

Your sense of style too.

You somehow manage to look elegant without looking like you tried for three hours to look elegant. And even when you think you look terrible, there is probably some Taurus somewhere thinking, "Are you actually serious right now?"

And your minds...

That might honestly be my favorite part.

I love watching a Virgo think.

You analyze everything.

Conversations. People. Decisions. Your own decisions. Decisions you made five years ago. Decisions you haven't even made yet.

Then you probably analyze whether your analysis was accurate.

Please rest.

For five minutes.

!!!!I am begging you!!!!.

But underneath all that logic, intelligence and perfectionism, there is something I think people sometimes miss.

Your heart.

Because I don't think you guys get enough credit for how deeply you care.

You notice things because you care.

You remember little things because they mattered to you.

You think about how you could have handled something better because other people's feelings matter to you.

You want things to be right because you actually give a damn.

And sometimes I think that same quality that makes you so thoughtful is also what makes you so hard on yourselves.

You can make one tiny mistake and suddenly you're mentally preparing evidence for your imaginary trial before the Supreme Court of Your Own Brain.

"You said the wrong thing."

"You should have handled that better."

"You could have done more."

"Maybe I disappointed them."

"Maybe I was selfish."

Girl.

PLEASE.

You are allowed to be human. You are allowed to make mistakes. You are allowed to be tired. You are allowed to not know what you're doing.

You are allowed to have a bad day. You are allowed to say no. You are allowed to disappoint someone. You are allowed to choose yourself sometimes.

You are allowed to rest without feeling guilty that you're not being productive. You don't have to be useful every second to deserve love. You don't have to be perfect before someone is allowed to love you.

And I really wish more Virgos understood that.

Because sometimes the things you criticize about yourselves are exactly the things someone else finds beautiful.

That little habit you think is weird. That thing you overthink.

The way you keep checking whether everyone is okay.

The way you care too much.

The way you notice something nobody else noticed.

The way you get excited when talking about something you genuinely love.

The way your face changes when you're concentrating.

The way you remember details people forgot.

Someone notices those things.

Someone loves those things.

Someone might even be sitting there thinking they're the best parts of you while you're busy trying to get rid of them.

And I think that's what makes Virgo beauty so different.

It's not just physical.

Although, let's be honest, you people are ridiculously attractive.

It's the entire combination.

The beauty.

The intelligence.

The style.

The logic.

The creativity.

The personality.

That very specific way your brain works.

You can be elegant and completely chaotic internally.

You can be incredibly intelligent and still ask yourself whether you sounded stupid in a conversation from Tuesday.

You can look completely composed while internally running seventeen investigations.

And somehow...

That's adorable.

As a Taurus, I actually understand more of you than people probably realize.

We're both stubborn as hell.

We both take our time before trusting people.

We both notice more than we say.

We both appreciate quality.

Good food.

Good clothes.

Beautiful surroundings.

Good conversations.

People with substance.

We can both be ridiculously loyal once we genuinely care.

And when we've decided someone matters to us, good luck getting us to casually stop caring.

The difference is that Taurus will sit there eating something delicious pretending everything is fine while Virgo is running seventeen background processes trying to figure out what went wrong.

Virgo: "Something feels slightly off."

Taurus: "Hmm."

Virgo: "Did you notice?"

Taurus: "Yes."

Virgo: "Then why aren't you saying anything?"

Taurus: "Because I am waiting to see if it fixes itself."

Virgo: "THAT IS NOT HOW PROBLEMS WORK."

Taurus: "...I know."

And somehow we still understand each other.

Maybe that's why I find you so lovable.

Because underneath all the stereotypes about Virgos being picky, critical, perfectionist, intimidating, overly analytical or impossible to please, I see something else.

I see someone who genuinely wants to do things well.

Someone who doesn't want to hurt people. Someone who wants the people around them to be okay.

Someone who can be incredibly soft but doesn't always know how to show it.

Someone who can spend so much time caring about everyone else that they forget they're allowed to be cared for too.

And that part really gets me.

Because you don't always need fixing.

Sometimes you just need someone to sit beside you and say,

"You're okay."

"You don't have to explain."

"You didn't ruin everything."

"You don't have to solve this tonight."

"Come here."

"I've got you."

I think a lot of Virgos spend so much of their lives trying to become better versions of themselves that they forget something very important.

They are already worthy of being loved in the version they're in right now.

Not when the anxiety is gone.

Not when the career is perfect.

Not when the body looks a certain way.

Not when every mistake has been corrected.

Not when every problem has been solved.

Right now.

On the messy days too.

On the days when you're insecure.

On the days when you feel behind.

On the days when you don't feel particularly beautiful.

On the days when your brain won't shut up.

You don't become less deserving of love because you're struggling.

And somebody out there genuinely loves the little things you think are insignificant.

Someone notices the way your eyes change when you're excited.

Someone notices the tiny expressions you make when you're thinking.

Someone notices your sense of style.

Someone likes hearing you explain things.

Someone thinks your intelligence is beautiful.

Someone thinks your creativity is fascinating.

Someone finds your overthinking strangely adorable.

Someone is proud of the things you don't give yourself credit for.

And yes, someone out there is absolutely losing his mind over a Virgo girl while pretending he's being perfectly calm about it.

Unfortunately, that someone is a Taurus.

So we're both doomed.

To all the Virgos reading this:

You are appreciated!!!.

You are noticed!!!.

You are beautiful!!!.

You are intelligent!!!.

You are creative!!!.

You are thoughtful!!!.

You are lovable!!!.

And you don't need to feel guilty about every little thing you do.

Stop apologizing when someone bumps into YOU.

Stop replaying every awkward interaction like you're reviewing CCTV footage.

Stop thinking every mistake says something terrible about your character.

Stop believing you need to have yourself completely figured out before you're allowed to feel proud of yourself.

You are allowed to just exist sometimes.

You are allowed to enjoy your life without optimizing it.

You are allowed to have fun without wondering whether you should be doing something productive.

You are allowed to be loved without earning it first.

And maybe most importantly...

You are allowed to believe that someone can see all of your flaws and still look at you with the same warmth.

Someone can know about your insecurities and not think less of you.

Someone can know how much you overthink and still find your mind beautiful.

Someone can know how sensitive you are and never use it against you.

Someone can know how stubborn you are and still smile when you refuse to admit you're wrong.

Someone can know all of you...

and still choose you.

So yes, this is basically a Taurus publicly appreciating Virgo women.

Your beauty. Your style. Your intelligence. Your logic.

Your creativity. Your strange little habits. Your intimidating standards.

Your beautiful minds.

Your ridiculously soft hearts hidden underneath all that "I'm fine, I have a system for this" energy.

And to the Virgo girl who inspired this entire thing...

I hope you know that there is a Taurus out here who doesn't just notice how beautiful you are.

He notices how your mind works.

He notices the little things.

He notices how much you care.

He notices how hard you are on yourself.

And maybe, just maybe, he wishes you could see yourself for a moment the way he sees you.

Because you spend so much time looking at everything that needs improvement.

He is looking at the person.

And he likes her.

A lot.

So, Virgo...

Please be a little kinder to yourself.

The world already gives you enough reasons to question whether you're doing enough.

You don't need to become another person who makes you feel inadequate.

You are allowed to be imperfect, to be complicated to be soft to be loved.

And for what it's worth...

Somewhere out there, a Taurus thinks you're pretty damn special.

Unfortunately for him, he has absolutely no idea how to handle that.

He's a Taurus.

God help him.

(Guys I used ChatGPT for refining it as my English is not that good and i wrote it in a mix of english and hindi that was like a letter to my SO. Sorry I didnt mentioned it before.)

I (30M) Scorpio have recently rekindled with a (31F) Virgo. We briefly dated 4 years ago where we had gone on a few dates and slept together, the chemistry was insane but I ended things due to timing (I was just out of a relationship and still living at home)

About a year and a half ago she followed me on instagram and were started talking again, we planned on meeting up then she went ghost for a week without warning the day we were supposed to meet. When she eventually texted me back i cut things off due to the lack of communication. Since that time she would like or reply to my insta stories, and a few months ago i replied to hers and she suggested meeting up, so 2.5 months ago, we finally made it happen.
Our first date was just getting beers to kinda feel it out and everything went great. Two days later, I took her to a concert and we had an amazing time, the spark and chemistry were definitely still there. After that, we didn't see each other for a month due to both of us traveling, but we were still texting every day.

Three weeks ago, on our third date, we had deeper conversations and talked about past relationships and I apologized for and explained why i ended things the first time, and reassured her im looking for a long term relationship. At the end of the night we kissed, then after I got home she said she had so much fun and wants to meet again soon. But honestly since then things have kinda seemed off.

On the Wednesday after that we made light plans to meet over the weekend depending on when she got done work, then I never heard from her until Sunday night. I told her it felt rude that she just left me hanging all weekend and would’ve appreciated her sending me a quick text letting me know. She then sent me a long message apologizing and saying she enjoys spending time with me and getting to know me but wants to take things slow because she doesn’t feel fully comfortable with her English and said “lately everything is so stressful for me, I don't know why but I'm really stressed. I genuinely want to make time for you but I'm constantly in "overthinking mode” and lots of things have been happening because she’s dealing with visa issues” (she's from Turkey) I told her I completely understand and dont want to add to the stress so just let me know when’s a good time for you, but we continued to stay in contact daily.

Then last weekend, a friend of mine saw her on a dating app, sent her a like, and they matched. She texted me right away to tell me about it and reassured me that I’m the only person she’s actually going on dates with and really likes me. It definitely made me feel a bit uneasy, but I appreciated her transparency. The following day, she said she wants to introduce me to her friends and also made a joke about whether I was scared to tell my mom we're dating.

On Sunday, I went to her friend's house and met three of her Turkish girlfriends and her friend's fiancé. It went really well in my opinion. Her friends were very welcoming and friendly, and were engaging with me a lot. We had dinner, drinks, and played cards.
Afterwards, her friend tagged me in her insta story and followed me.
Part of me feels like things are progressing well, but also finding out she’s actively on dating apps, while telling me she wants to take things slow and only getting to see her every few weeks has me feeling quite uneasy.

I’m a Virgo/Libra (9/21). anyone else here a cusp babe?

I always read that you guys love to send love songs. Is it like a form of confession to you? Or you just share them because you liked the song? If it’s some sort of confession, why can’t you just say straight up you like them pr how you’re feeling?

Virgo season is upon us. I a Taurus man, want to extend my welcoming grace. Most of my best friends are Virgos and with that being said… hey 😏. If you’re a Texan lady or willing to relocate and looking for a woodland bound guy that wants to lay outside in a truck bed holding your safe in my arms while looking at the stars and have deep conversations about the inner workings of the universe and energies that draw us together while wandering the woods collecting bones, petting random frogs, eating wild berries, befriending crows, hand feeding squirrels, naming deer, and pretty much all other activities that involve giving the world the finger and doing your thing unabashedly while sticking with a tall burly Viking lumber jack country boy who is highly independent capable hanging by the lake bathed in the sunset raising feral children that run bare foot in woods type that wants build you a fairy garden and have date nights at tractor supply company hit me up. I’d love to hear from you.

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Virgo man who are happily married what's your wife zodiac sign?

Well I can’t directly give her the gift in her birthday..(She said no for a date ahead last year) just give her a gift before I move on.