Girls adding guys on spam
My girl has 2 Instagram accounts
Ones a main where she adds whoever she has interacted with and another account that’s her “spam” account
On the main she has classmates close friends relatives and mutuals
On her spam she posts a lot of day to day stuff, so according to me it should be exclusive and have her close friends in it
Her spam has old guy friends who have been there for a while and close female friends and some mutuals of close female friends
I don’t mind the ones already present
I mind her adding new guys who she met in her new college
I don’t mind her being friends with them but id prefer her not to add them to her spam cause it creates a unsaid barrier of “me and her aren’t that close for me to be on her spam”
She came to this conclusion
“my conclusion is i can add whoever tf i wanna if i feel like they are a good friend and im comfortable with them being on my spam
and if such a small thing makes you uncomfortable then im sorry cause this is such a small thing
and if i do remove then you’ll only get more paranoid about every little thing such as this”