We really traumatised our women, or did Meru men do it single-handedly?😂
Admins please don't take this down, at least for a day.
So there was a string of robberies in our apartment block so I bought a panga, sharpened it you know to chase away thieves if they came. For self defence that is.
This lady of mine who kept visiting me saw it. The panga has been here longer than we started dating she just saw it by chance and every-time she visited she mentioned it, I didn't think much of it.
One day she mentioned it and I took it and started playing with it, I had told her what it was for and demonstrated how I would chase away the thieves, she hurled herself into a corner like she had seen a snake, I'm a cool God-fearing guy, I practise stoiscim and it would take a lot to make me angry, I was not angry and I thought we were joking, she knows this and a panga is not a gun so she can't be injured by mistake. Be she was in fear, then after a few days she told me a story of hour a drunk man threatened her with a gun years ago.
I once visited a girl and since I like playing around with things in my hand, say a pen, I took a knife from her desk and started playing around with it. I was in uni at the time and in a single room, the kitchen table is also the study table. She was visibly scared and couldn't continue the conversation and I had to put the knife back.
Growing up my mum would always hid the machete, everyone knew it was for home defense, I can't claim I really knew my dad(I honestly think a person can never really know another person, we just understand them to the best of our ability, knowing ourselves is a lifelong task).
So yea, we traumatised our women.
Nyeri women did a number on men, this did traumatise men.
I must stop here, my cat wants to get into the dustbin