What did you do when you caught your husband cheating?
Busted mine yesterday at a dinner, fancy in one of our favorite restaurants. I left the house. He have tried to apologize. Im still numb. Not sure what to feel. And I am ready to throw 12 years away
Bad sexual experience plus some childish nonchalant act made some fine girl think men aren't her type.
Si kusnow basi😭it's so cold even with warm clothes on.
Mkuje tucuddle as friends my loves.😭😭😂🫶
Since I broke up with my ex who I lived with for years, I've been on my own for several months. Before there were things I didn't think about much like my home safety, now I have to consider it when dealing with people especially men.
Recently I've been learning an instrument as a hobby and my music teacher is quite friendly. I've gotten comfortable with him in a platonic sense (probably not the best idea) but now I'm rethinking our interactions. He's asked me what I do, who I live with but yesterday he asked if I host people in my house and how much I pay for my electric bill. Not directly but webbed in conversation. I realized later I shouldn't be such an open book with him because he's still a stranger. Are these innocent questions or is he trying to sus out how much I own and how vulnerable I am?
Ladies am I overthinking this? I'm considering ending my classes with him.
I messed up, well technically I didn’t because I was on birth control but you get the gist. My period was five days late which it has never been, I have been nauseated asf and an emotional mess. I decided to take a test at 6:00 pm today and I didn’t wait for the recommended three minutes…..I saw one line and thanked the Lord and continued with my activities.
Fast forward like three hours later I was talking to my man about it and we were discussing how grateful we were and what we would have done if it would have been positive (we both agreed that not keeping it would be wise). The call ends and I decided to look at the test again to see how close of a call it was. Shock on my ass, two dark lines.
I have been thinking about what to do and I simply cannot keep it. I am already helping my brother take care of his child so I know better than to add another child to the equation. I’ve checked online and the options all seem extremely expensive. I’ve seen the pills range from around 15Gs which I can’t afford due to the fact that I am basically raising my brother’s child. If anyone has access to or knows of someone who has reasonably priced options, please let me know. I’m trying to do this ASAP before I overthink myself into a frenzy🙏🏾
Anyone here joining a university in Budapest this September that would like to team up as freshers? DM please.
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Malindi has been flourishing of late and LAND is still affordable going at Ksh. 2M per acre in Misufini (10 minutes drive from Malindi Town), you can buy now and wait (or subdivide for investment). Also AIRBNB business is booming with new RESIDENTIAL APARTMENTS being built for that purpose. Getting a 2 Bedroom apartment, fully furnished with AC and Swimming pool and Gym being just 5 minutes walking distance to Lawford's Beach, for only Ksh. 9.5M
Which one would be an ideal investment considering taking a mortgage payment plan if it's for the newly built apartment.?
#Saidia_Ladies
Now ladies, listen. 😂 I don't know if this is the case for everyone, but there's one emotion that sometimes makes me feel incredibly vulnerable and awkward: pleasure. Yes, you heard me right. 😂
My pleasure face is SO awkward that half the time I don't even want the person I'm with to see it fully. 😂 It's just one of those things I can't really control, and knowing that my face is basically exposing exactly how I'm feeling makes me feel even more vulnerable.
Has anyone else ever experienced this? Because I've never really thought about it before, but I've realized my "pleasure face" might genuinely be the most awkward expression I make. 😂
so, a while back I was involved in a threesome. three actually and each time I was more inclined to the girl than the guy, considering the guy is the one introducing me to her. this last one was the most intense because when we were going home, the guy just put us both in an uber and said “enda mkapendane huko“ 😭 heh i won’t lie I like that he felt jealous like that but i think I’m ready to be with women exclusively. anyways, how’s your afternoon?🤣
Hey ladies, I, like Lady Gaga, I like my Mt. Venus a little foresty? It keeps me warm and I don't feel very bare. Nobody knows how I look down there but me 😂. Yeah I am an asexual of sorts I like my life as is. So now I wanted to try out bikini waxing but when I wax my armpits si I feel pain wueh. And the chic who waxes me was my Campus mate yawa.
The thought of bearing myself like that and I'm attracted to women. What if I get wet? Msee and who said I need to shave anyways right? I'm no corn star. But haha ebu gather around sisters and be nice aye?
For the women who met or had good eaters in the past and dumped them, does it get better? Did you actually find better in future?
I know the question should be directed to a gynae, but I need y'all to be a girls girl for a minute. What family planning methods would you vouch for. And if you are a PCOS/PMOS girly what has worked for you. Thanks
Aki please saidieni
So my neighbor went to shagzz with her son ju shule zimefungua leaving her husband at home……sisi ni ish ish friends with the wife her house is next to mine ……so for the last 3 days a week after the wife left I noticed kuna mschana aliletwa na they look cozied up from the balcony…..don’t judge aki umbea utanimaliza but they seemed to be touchy touchy……………anyway this wife tunaongeanga she’s the provider alifungulianga chali bizna yakumkeep busy……..school fees ni yeye rent Yaani kila kitu ………….to make matters worse they brought an aunty kidogo jamaa started fisiaring akafukuza aunty and never cautioned the husband……sasa should I even tell her….. the madamz that was brought by the husband has left……sijui if I tell Kama kitaniramba because she seems to tolerate it na anakaunaga na makelele mob .aki helpppp what to do
I'm 25M, and my girlfriend is 31F. I met her when I was 20 and she was 26. We have been together for four years, and everything has been fine, but now the age gap has started hitting me hard.
I'm doing well financially, and my girlfriend really wants marriage, but I'm not ready. Given my current situation, I've told her that I might be ready in the next 8–10 years. However, our timelines don't align because I want kids, and considering her age, I might be putting her at risk by asking her to wait that long.
As a side note, I recently met another girl, 23F, who is now my side chick. We met her at a social event with my girlfriend, and this girl started hitting on me, saying she wants me to be her boyfriend and that she wants me to marry her. She's been very insistent, even though she knows I already have a girlfriend.
I'm torn between breaking things off with my current girlfriend so I can focus on fixing my life, but I also don't want to immediately jump into another relationship.
For those of you who’ve become more strict with yourselves over the years, what are some things you do now that your younger self would’ve found unnecessary?
I'll go first:
When I was younger, I’d repeatedly ask for things like consistency, inclusion, reassurance, etc. Nowadays, if I have to keep asking for the same thing, I take that as my answer. Asking more than once starts feeling too close to begging, and I’m not doing that.
You think I’m mean? Cool. You think I’m too straightforward? Sawa. They said I’m self-centred? Fine 👍🏽. I honestly couldn’t care less about how I’m perceived anymore. When I was younger, I used to spend so much energy worrying about what people thought of me.
If I made you feel some type of way, come straight to me and tell me. I’m not going to sit there analysing your tone, assuming you’re mad at me, and then beating myself up over something you haven’t even communicated. You’re a grown adult. Communicate with me and we’ll deal with it.
When I was younger, I wanted to be seen as the “perfect girl” so badly that I’d walk on eggshells just to avoid making someone upset with me. Nowadays, if you’re constantly making me uncomfortable or I have to shrink myself to keep you happy, I’ll simply step away.
If a friendship becomes consistently toxic, I’ll leave. Someone starts treating me differently or behaving funny towards me? I’m leaving. You constantly trauma-dump on me without considering whether I have the capacity for it? I’ll distance myself. A guy friend starts becoming overly sexual? Outt. 😂
I used to stay in situations way longer than I should have because I felt like I had to fix things or give people endless chances. Learning that I’m allowed to simply leave has saved me from so much unnecessary emotional distress.
When I was younger, I cared way too much about men and how they perceived me. Nowadays? I genuinely couldn’t give a fuck whether a man looks my way or not. 😂 I don’t care about impressing them, getting their attention or hearing their opinions about me.
The moment a man opens his dirty mouth and starts saying some nonsense, I’m already mentally three streets away.
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized that time is one of the most valuable things you can give someone. I don’t play about mine anymore.If we’re going on a date and you’re more than 30 minutes late without a genuinely sensible explanation, that’s probably the last time you’ll see me. I won’t intentionally make you wait for me, so I expect the same consideration in return.
I’m more conscious about what I eat and drink now. When I was younger, I didn’t think twice about what I was consuming as long as it tasted good. 😂 Now I actually think about how something is going to make me feel afterwards.
I used to be such a partyholic. I’d smoke pot, drink myself silly and stay out for hours. That lifestyle just doesn't appeal to me anymore, and honestly, I don't see myself going back to it.
When I was younger, I wasn’t really serious about getting to know God or having an actual relationship with Him. Now, my relationship with God is something I’m much more intentional about, and I take it a lot more seriously.
Those are mine. I’d genuinely love to hear yours too :)
Heey.
To my hyper independent ladies especially first born daughters how are y'all doing?
Personally, I feel like crashing out rn😭. Sometimes I also want to be someone's baby. I want to be pampered, taken care of, randomly spoiled, reassured and that I don't have to carry everything on my own.
Because being the "I got it "girl gets exhausting. Sometimes I don't want solutions, I don't want to figure things out, I don't want to be responsible for everything. I just want someone to look at me and say "Relax, I've got you" and maybe some funds of affirmation while they are it because why not😭😂.
Is it a just me feeling or we are many?