What's a fair split for holidays?
My (31F) boyfriend (33M), have 3 kids between us, we have lived together for almost 1 year. I have an 8 year old and he has a 3 year old and an 8 year old.
We are planning and to book a trip to Orlando (from UK) and do all the parks. The cost is quite significant and this will be our first abroad holiday as a family. It was my idea to go. He wouldn't have suggested Florida but I have an illness which will affect me in my 40s/50s so I want to start giving my child good memories. I did offer to go by myself with my son but my boyfriend said that he wants to come with us and his kids are keen to go.
Just wondering how everyone splits these kinds of events?
Do you split it 50/50 down the middle or do you pay for yourself and your children, while your partner covers the cost of his kids?